Mero family ma sabai jana ekdam high achievers ra successful people hunuhuncha(I feel proud of them) tara yar ekdam stressful huncha. Baba mami dubai jana lecturers .SEE ma ramro gpa aayepaxi ta jhan expectations ajhai high bhako cha .science ko student ho ma.padhai ko stress le nai mero bald spots dekhina thali sakyo .sanai dekhi people pleaser bhayera hola .sadhai goody good child ko persona maintain garnu parcha.My father is a great person. Tara he doesn’t have a good hold of his emotions.sabai jana ko aagadi ekdam degrading tarika le gali garnu huncha sadhai .When i was in 3rd grade taile jindagi ma kei gari khadainas, aru ko jutho khanxas taile bhanera gali garnu bhako ma kaile birsinna .ma kei nabhani room ma gayera 1 hr samma roko thiye teti bela aaile ,samjhera ni haso uthcha euta 3 class ko bachha jo aafno class ma top5 bhitra aairahanthyo teslai 1st aayena bhanera yesari gali khako bhanera .
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The thing is as you get older and start rebelling big by bit they get used to it. Your father didn’t mean what he said he thought it would motivate you and you’d forget that as you grew up. Open up about what he said. He needs to know what wrong he did too. And then start going your way little by little. I and almost all of my friends come from a high achievers family. We’ve all kinda disappointed them and they’ve made peace with it. Trust me they make peace with it. It gets more fun. Your parents calm down too.
narisau tara tmrai bau jastai teacher le ho jhan demotivate garne school college ma. aafno chora lai kasari motivate garne bhanne tha hune manche le aaru ko chora chori ko k dhyan delan ra. mero case ma teacher dai ko sathi hunuhuntheo, khatra motivate garnu huntheo, jabo top garna k xa ra padh majja le bhanera. aaile ne yaad aauxa school ma bhaneko kura. teacher le kasto padhauxa parents le katti ko mahango school college ma join gardeko xa bhanda pani katti ko motivate garxan, environment kasto maintain garxan bhanne ma bhar parxa lauxa hai malai chai study ko case ma. tesai ta fragile hunxa student life. tesma jhan j pai tehai bolne relatives ra teacher dekhi ta dhunga le hanam jhai lauxa.
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Can relate. 1 class ma third bhako thiye, khusi hudai bau lai sunauna gako, 1st kina bhainas bhanera sunnu parya thyo.
Aruko aafno parents sanga ko ramro relation dekhda achamma lagcha haha sad cha jindagi.