Do you guys regret having a child? What do you regret the most? ki ramailo huncha bachha hurkauna ekdam? How tough is it for both working parents to raise one? If past ma jana mile, would you have made the decision to have a child? Finances haru milauna katiko garo huncha?
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I have two kids (7 and 3).
It is tough to raise children especially if both parents are working. My elder one grew up with my parents and it was easier. But my parents are not around so we find it difficult to manage ourselves sometimes.
Finances milauna garo nai huncha. Education is expensive!
But do I regret anything? Absolutely no.
I accept that there are times when I am really frustrated because it is difficult to manage. But, the joy of parenting trumps any frustration I feel.
I would rather play with my girls than go drinking with my friends. I would rather help my daughters with their studies/learning rather than go watch movies. I do it because I enjoy it.
But you may or may not enjoy it. There is no right or wrong thing to do. It should be right for you and your partner.
All the best!!
> Only Fathers and Mothers to answer.
Does it work if someone calls me daddy?
most beautiful feeling ever when you carry your child for the first time.
Child hurkauna na chai full time, full effort dinu parcha. Herda herdai, khelda kheldai hurkincha. Mentally prepare bhayara matra parenta bhako ramro.
Working parents lai chai ali garo hucnha. Unless aaru koi cha herdiney.
NO REGRETS.
I don’t regret having a child. He’s the best thing I’ve had in my life. I work for a remote company and I am at home all day. My wife abandoned her duties as a mother and spends 10-11 hours at work so I have to take care of the baby and lead a remote engineering team all at once so it’s quite of a discomfort.
They say raising baby is 50-50 responsibility but in my case it is a 90-10 responsibility. I just regret that we could not raise our baby together and I had to be the mother of my baby despite being the biological father.
He said his first word “Babu” and she was not there. He stood up and walked for the first time and she was not there. He had already had his first teeth a month back but she only saw when there were three.
But kei chaina. He’s 3 and he is my best friend. I love him more than anything.
I do not.
I am Son
I feel I am useless for my family. So, I think their answer will be YES
I didn’t have a happy childhood, so I didn’t plan to have children. The world is so cruel and bringing them into it requires a well thought out decision
U an orphan??
Lots of Parents do regret but they cope and justify it with generic excuses.