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as this thouht came in my mind in 9 class. tyo vanda paila i never thought about looks and …..calling me xi and …….saying no handsome loves me (I HAD CRUSH ON HER AND I TOLD HER THAT)
and after that not a single good relationship and moreover dolma teasing me about my nose in a whole i just think im ugly and no girls likes me. do girls love boys in the basis of their looks and i cant blame them because i also develop crush on girls on the basis of their looks and i feel like i have no luck in getting a girlfriend and i should just give up thinking that i will ever get a girlfriend just by look
There are different kinds of people. Each one has their types, a no-type is also a type. Meaning not all girls only look at surface attractiveness. Yea sure, looking handsome is a plus and might be the first thing one notices, but that definitely isn’t what it takes for someone to like you. I have a heck lot of friends with not the most handsome guys, in long term relationships. And really, that shocks me. But I find myself being attracted to similar people often.
I think women mostly care about how a guy treats them at the start. You can be gorgeous but an asshole, we’ll want nothing to do with you. You can be bad looking(I don’t mean untidy, please be clean), u don’t need to be wearing rich clothes and shoes, but if you treat us well, and if it’s meant to be, we’ll for sure like you.
Aba koi case ma chahi, guys will treat girls right, but girls will have only thought of them as friends, hunxa yesto, this is a complaint I hear from a lot of my guy friends. “Yaar yetro effort lagayo, last ma friendzoned.” I understand but that kinda sounds unfair for the girl too. She thought she made a friend but you only wanted her to date.
Focus on yourselves, bf gf bla bla bla tauko dukhai matra ho khasma ta(says the one who got dumped 2 months into relationship and rejected multiple times)but hey I’m talking from experience so heh bekar ko tension ho k, just take everything regarding relationships lightly, start mai dher sochyo vane afai hurt hune ho end ma
TL;DR – Not all girls love boys just on the basis of their looks, the minority prob does
how old are you bruh?
mate paisa feko tamasa dekho.
money hay to honey hay.
teen ma huda looks does matter for ego boost and all those shit, still if you are wealthy teen kt are attracted like a magnet, paisa chaina vane you got to have kt skills, tyo ni chaina vane thopda vaye ni friend zone ho. tara eventually later in life looks has nothing to do with kt at all, paisa nai ho main kura yo kaliyug ma kt patyaune sutra.
eh nobody is ugly
sbjana attractive hunchhan in their own ways
You might be facially challenged a bit, but you’re not truly ugly. A 5 can easily go up to a 7 with good physique, good hygiene, decent fashion, and a nice haircut. That’s without adding personality by the way, so no, you’re not truly ugly.
Mero bhai, mero Rajja. Looks nai important chha bhaney ta you can work on that yll. Ofc, it will take time But, then I think ki looks kai basis ma relationship khojnu is kinda meaningless unless you want something short term or FwBs as other factors may get the situation destabilised soon.
Okay listen bro, Aba looks vaneko auta pato matra ho attractiveness ko. It’s a more fundamental part ho. Which is what we are wired to look at while looking for a mate. But it’s mostly about looking healthy. If you look healthy i.e good skin, normal characteristics, good physique. You will look significantly more attractive. So you can workout, look clean, skin care, choose hairstyle and beard suiting your facial harmony. And you can go from 3 to 6 just like that. On top of that, people are looking for different things or people find different things attractive. So don’t get hung up on one person finding you unattractive. There will be others with different opinions. Some will even find you attractive.
Also your crush is probably pretty young. Once she will start thinking about career and money. And these things start to dominate her mind. Her priorities and outlook might change. Usually, girls will care about money and social standing a lot as well😅. So there are some factors to consider as well.
In the end this is a possibility too, she falls into a few bad relationship. Realizes there is no prince Charming. So later she settles with you. If you do good in life, and treat her well. That’s defn a possibility 😅
in 10th grade rn, ani 9th ma coincidentally malai pani face herera jiskauthe (tara only guys, not the girls)… tetibela samma i hadnt tried to be in a relationship tara now i have 2 exes ani i just got to know that one girl who liked me back in grade 7th (left after) still likes me 😆 its just ur perception on how u look.. also try talking to girls no matter if u have a crush on them cause that’ll help u to reach out to ur crush
in 7th grade i had a huge crush on my classmate but she rejected me, ahile we are still best friends!
Just start lookmaxing lil bro you are at the right age
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your version of being handsome
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Why do you think you’re ugly? What makes you feel that about yourself? Whats your insecurity with face? How old are you? What’s your height n weight? Need some info to analyse and suggest.
How can I tell when I don’t even know how you look like in the first place tho? Send a pic n I’ll Assess
Bro, if you are fat workout. If you are skinny, gain some weight. Workout for 3 to 6 months everyday and see the results. Your muscle 💪 will hide your ugliness, if there’s any. Lots of girls uses layers and layers of makup to hide their ugly face.
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