So the thing is, one of my friends who is bi confessed to me and it was a straight rejection from my side as I am straight. But from the day one I was always by her side. We both are friends for more than 5 years. We are still friends and she shares everything to me. When she said that she is with her step mother, she was molested for years by her uncle, everyone from her family tells her she is the unwanted child and wish for her to die, I felt so bad for her and time and again she says she has no will to live . I always console her to be strong and I will always support her.
5 days before I saw some cuts on her hand ( it was probably done from blades and there were multiple slashes). I asked her what happened and all but she refused to tell me. I thought she doesn’t want to talk about it and continuous nagging might result her to overthink about the situation she was in. Yesterday at night at around 1 am she called me to be online. There she confessed everything. Everyone in her family are continuously saying her to throw her life and to kill herself and she is just burden to her family. And finally she decided to end everything up took up the blades and started to slash on her wrists but she couldn’t ( I am glad she couldn’t).she said that The only thing that pulled her back from dying was all the happy moments we spent together. She had flashback of her whole life and only will of her to live was the moments with me and she still is unsure how to live and all. She confessed that she might end her life anyday.
I’ve been trying to console her not to do anything like her, I am continuously motivating her, I am frequently contacting her as I am afraid she might do something wrong.
I don’t want her to do anything like that. So can you suggest me what should I do now??
I am really very scared right now. Plz help me.
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This is a very serious issue. I don’t have any experience or expertise to give any advice but she needs to get out of that house. How old is she? Are there friends she can stay with?
Tell her to calm and don’t make any decisions. Try to remind her the purpose of her life. What are her dreams.tell her how bright her future is and so on. But most importantly tale her to some doctors. She needs immediate help.
I would beat the hell out of that uncle.
Anyways, stay with her, tell her that you don’t wanna wake up knowing that she isn’t there anymore. Tell her to hang on and that you’ll help her with whatever comes her way.
Take her to a doctor or an expert. I lost my friend, cause I didn’t realize soon enough how bad it had gotten. keep on checking on her.
as someone who’s been on both sides of the table, i would suggest she try therapy. i know it’s got a bad rep nepali society ma but it really does help. i know you as a friend are trying your best to help her out but there could be some things that she wouldn’t be willing/open to talk about even with you. and i don’t mean this in a bad way, its just the fear of being judged is all. so with therapy she can have a safe space to open up about anything and everything. ofc finding the right therapist is a tough task, but it will be worth it. hope this helps. wishing her the best 🙏
Bro take her to therapist if possible and assure her that you do care for her even you don’t want her as partner. You’re the only one she trusts so try to be nice to her as you could save her life.
confirm gara tyo fam wala kuraa ani yedi ho raixa vane ramro rejection sentence ready gara ani ghumna jaau dubai kata ani tero laagi ma keti khojdinxu tension nagar vana
Maybe get some professional help
Tell her she is not the only one who has this issue !! lot of people are fighting her own demon !! The world is beautiful place once she start to living she will see positivity only !! she need to workout !! do job need to get out of place !! i am introvert i don’t like this that is not an answer !! the answer would be first step she takes in anything !!
that father who used to come home drunk daily and beat him and his mother now after 10 years ! they buy house , he got good job !! got married had daughter !! good thing take time !! she need to prove her why she was not unwanted !! why she should live !! if she want to die then let her die once she prove why she should survive !!
I Would be damned if her name started with p and has luitel surnamwe
i don’t think kasailya kasaiko help garna sakxa, usle aafai solution khojna parxa.
yo mistake chai nagara, trauma thaxa timi matra usko happiness ho bhandaima u shouldn’t be forced to accept her proposal.
stay away from such timebomb emotionally weakass pussies
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Contact doctor or some kind of emergency service asap. That’d be my suggestion