Money is precious. vaili is our culture but i feel money should be invested on some good cause. They have their own agenda of collecting money nowadays. Its about having fun, dancing and all but i feel they only expect money. If they are helping some others its okay but we giving dherai money for their picnic and own personal agenda. Rich can afford but how will poor afford. They come in huge group expecting huge amount of money. I feel this is issue . when people come in huge mass and we don’t have money or just small amount ,its embarrasing . vailis judge us , their expression is like so less. even if we give whatever we have they’ll be like so less. we aren’t rich man , we can just give afno aukat anusar stop judging us.
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Expenses cover garne paisa uthna kati pani lagdaina , baki sabai profit ho as I’ve also played deusi bhailo in a group. Ani profit sajilai hudaina, the deusi group should understand that. Thorai thorai garera hune ho, koi koi Ghar ma thorai paisa dinchhan not an issue tara with the people I’ve worked were extremely paisa mukhe fuck I hate them testa le k khelnu radaban haru
The answer: it promotes our culture and encourages our upcoming generation to continue the tradition.
Now I know you’re gonna say that your point is they are expecting so much money from us. It is true that we will be only able to provide how much we can. But think from their side as well. They prepare for this occasion from a long time. Obviously they will be a bit disappointed with what they earn despite of so much preparation.
From our side we need to understand that they have worked hard for this. And from their side they should understand that not everyone can provide big money.
Usually what we do is we provide an adequate amount while they are performing. If their performance gets better, volunteers can add money for them.
one small kid came to our house alone and said paisa dinu ,he didn’t even say bhailo …ane eutai ghar 2,3 choti gairathiyo which was funny tara bachha haru sees it only as a paisa kamaune mauka …ane thulo vayera ne tai mentality huncha
Budget bhasan according to my friends
Large group ( band Baja ) : 2000-3000
Smol group : 1000-1500
Children : 100 each
Mero mum le ta 50 diyera pathaye fuchhey haru lai😂
agreed. Vailis should not expect anything if they do not have explicit consent from the homeowner to come and play deusi/vailo.
ChatGPT, please rewrite this post in another similar context in Nepal:
**why giving so much money to TikTokers?**
Money is precious. *TikTok, i understand, has become a culture* but i feel money should be invested on some good cause. They have their own agenda of collecting money nowadays. Its about having fun, dancing and all but i feel they only expect money. If they are helping some others its okay but we giving dherai money for their *iPhone 14 Pro Maxes and Makeups* and own personal agenda. Rich can afford but how will poor afford. They come ~~in huge group~~ *looking hot and sexy* expecting huge amount of money. I feel this is issue . when people come *on like looking pretty in a Live full of 400 people* and we don’t have money or just small amount ,its embarrasing . *Tiktokers* judge us , their expression is like so less. even if we give whatever we have they’ll be like so less. we aren’t rich man , we can just give afno aukat anusar stop judging us. *Please Tiktokers, stop judging us!*
The groups put in so much effort in practicing their dancing, singing and such. They also have to manage to travel with their equipments they need for vaili. Paisa xa ani dina sakxa vaney diney ta ho ni. Na saki na saki ta kasaile didainan hola.