Yo reddit ma maile derai jo lonely vaye koi bolni vayenan tesaile depressed xu vanni post dekhi ra hunxu.
I think there is a lot difference between being lonely and depression.Halka life ma sano obstacles ayo ki”la depression vayo malai”.
Being a teen myself I also feel the same way.I always used to think that my problems were original (I even strated writing book about it haha) such as :
1) girlfriend binai marni vaye
2)sathi haru sab nag xan
3)Family le kura bujdainan
4)Malai sab le bully garxa
How is depression different from what a normal teen feels? Malai aru vanda ni saruk tamrakar ko death le halka kasto kasto banai rako xa.
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Depression hunu ra depressed hune different hunxa…eveyone is depressed at certain point of time because of various cause…depression huna chai reason nai chahinxa bhanne hudaina ..it can occur due to hormonal imbalance….main difference bhane ko chai i think depressed huda chai you are only sad when you think of the problem in your life tara depression ma chai you are sad all time ..even if you are out with your friends or doing what you generally like…life ma almost nothing gives you happiness …you fell this deep sadness most of the time…lack of motivation, kei garnai manlagnu, bachna man nalagnu etc hunxa depression ….malai taha bhaye samma chai yehi hoo…depression ko pani different kinds ani stages hunxa so symptoms could be different …it could also depend upon people also….
Unless you experience it by yourself you can truly never understand it. Been there myself and I thought why the fk people suicide or why do they get depressed? I thought it was a simple thing and thought why not just divert your mind and just be happy but that doesn’t work like that. So, you can never know what it feels like. Just don’t mock those people or give advice like be happy, do fun etc they know all those things in mind but they can’t concentrate on that as the main issue overwhelms all these things.
Feeling depressed ra being in depression ma farak hunxa k. Some are feeling depressed. Some might be just sad and exaggerating their sadness to depression. Someone might be going through depression.
For me the Anxiety attacks and feeling down no matter what I do is the worst thing about depression. Couldn’t even sleep properly at nights. And when i sleep its always for longer duration sometimes i sleep for 10 to 13 hours and always feeling restless even though I have slept through half a day and Feeling like life is going nowhere.
EVERYTHING seems futile when you are depressed. Even you, your life, your existence
Afaile nabhoge samma coward namard bhanirakhincha,aafulai paresi ani sad quote instama ra Mero koi sathi chainan bhandei +Sab sathi dhokebaz bhandai halchan story.Chikni timi haruchai namard ho bhanna chahanchu testolai
Depression is weird. Different people lai differently niskincha. It’s not just feeling sad. For me it was like a perpetual misery, feels like you’re stuck in a hole and you just can’t get out. Eventually, even your will to try anything dies out. Things that you like stop giving you joy. You end up feeling numb to a lot of things.
For some people, there are some periods of manic activity. Like you can switch to being an active person throughout the day, but the moment you are by yourself, it’s like your entire battery got drained and you just struggle to do anything for yourself. For some people, they have a hard time doing simple things like cooking or taking a shower. Alchi lageko feeling haina. More like it feels like it’s taking a lot of effort to drag your body out of bed just to function.
For some people, even social interactions feel scary. The thought of talking to someone fills them with dread. So to avoid feeling that fear in their heart, they avoid people, start making excuses, hide from everyone. And then that further pushes them in their isolated hole.
Sabai lai sabai symptoms huncha bhanera hudaina. Some people are very good at hiding it. Some people deal with it in a different way. Read The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath, herself a victim of depression. She compares it to being trapped under a bell jar, struggling to breath.
There are two types of depression one is clinical and other is emotional state. Must people go through the latter.
Depression kun colour ko hunxa ???
I am unfortunately one of those who refused to believe that I struggled with mental health all my life until recently things got really worse, this time i cant even deny that it’s not depression vanera.
If i had to describe it in words .. depression feels like you’re trapped, you see no way out, like you’re trapped in your body, you just aren’t thinking anything but still your whole body is aching, tired.. you just are quite, no matter how much you try you can’t even fake being okay, you lose yourself, you become a stranger to yourself. Its like your old you wouldn’t even recognize you.. you feel extreme pain.. not just in your brains but in your body.. you cant eat anything.. its just an empty void.
It’s your body saying I don’t want to be this character anymore
Before I used to think depression is joke , you can easily get out of that bla bla , it’s just sadness , I used to think it’s the choice people be in it …but I was wrong , I understood what actually depression is from reading about anxiety attacks people get in where there is no hope left in them , anxiety attack is like you just start to think of problem out of nowhere , and due to intense pain you get collaped , from that I understood what depression actually is ,
Depression is actually a disappointment. People who have lots of time to imagine are most suffering from this mental illness. They expect things, and when they don’t get what they expect they become disappointed with their life and call it depression. People who get disappointed with their life, They think life is a piece of cake but actually, it isn’t. Life fucks us all but we shouldn’t fuck ourselves.
Depression is having a weak mind nothing else. Being weak is normal but staying weak isn’t.
I can give you my symptoms:
1.Raat bhari nindra nalagne
2.Thought of suicide all the time .Death kasaiko bhayo bhane wow they are lucky I wish ma uniharu ko thau pani huna paye hunthyo bhanne laagne .
3.OCD pani cha (OCD is not just about aamama malai ta clean chaincha ) ekdamai stereotypical kura ho tyo .It is so hard to live with ocd .
Please don’t judge me hai .Once I touched tip of my toungue in chappal because mero mind le bhanirako thyo taile yo garenas bhane tero dad ko bharkharai death huncha.I had to do it.
Yestai ta katti cases cha cha .
4. Anxiety attacks ( ekkasi chai deja vu hune haina bolda boldai , lekhda lekhdai jatibela ni huncha sakcha and ekdamai gaaro paarne runa aaune )
Depression kun colour ko hunxa ???
khai i never saw anyone here say im lonely so im depressed its jjust im lonely and so painful