After completing highschool i am feeling lonely and having constant pessimistic thought about the future[No gf in 20 years , No any acheivement to be proud of,and laslty no Skills] is it a phase ?
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After completing highschool i am feeling lonely and having constant pessimistic thought about the future[No gf in 20 years , No any acheivement to be proud of,and laslty no Skills] is it a phase ?
Hey! Trust me, it is a phase. If it is that point of time when you might be an average student from a “middle-class” family who feels like a person who has not been able to have fun or been able to contribute to the family, understand that it is a phase of you turning into adulthood.
But the truth is you are right now working on a path of achieving something. Give a few more years until you are 26-27 years old, and you start working to have a little sense of achievement. For now, use this realization to enjoy the essence of life a little more, make good friends, stay on track with whatever you are studying, and invest your time in growing yourself into any hobbies you have. If you like somebody, don’t hesitate to approach the person in a decent way. Love is natural. Everybody understands that. It’s just the way you approach a person or express that makes things different. If love hasn’t been your priority, that’s ok as well. It’s not a rare thing – you’ll eventually find somebody sooner or later.
phase ta k vannu dherai ko estai nai ho yo age ma.
my suggestion try changing things root bata. sano sano kura nai kina nahos try changing.
mero opinion ma chai changing is what makes you feel that you are living hai.
No Gf in 20 years is quite common, Not just in Nepal but in foreign countries as well.
And the feeling of pessimistic doesn’t go away even after achieving great feats. I am slowly realizing and applying gratefulness in my life and working on my goals as well with no rush, Thats what makes me happy and positive about my future.
No, it’s not a phase. If you have failed in most of the things you tried in your life you probably *are* a talentless individual. Not everyone is meant to be special. The cosmos has no plans for ordinary people like you. Think about it. Everyday hundreds of thousands of people die in random accident every year. Here one moment, gone the next. Just like that. Existence is just a series of random events. Your existing on this earth and being talentless is also a totally random occurrence. The universe, God or some higher power didn’t plan for it. No single person is that special that the entire existence conspires to make them one way or another.
You need to make peace with reality.
Whole subreddit is filled up with the posts like this from guys in there 20s today.
But I hope you do something for your personal glory and satisfaction.
>No any acheivement to be proud of,and laslty no Skills] is it a phase ?
Umm, it’s just middle life crisis being experienced at late teenage years. Lol.
K padhdai xau bhana aau sangai sikam. Ma chai IT field ma ho. Regret lagxa yaha ko padhai ko paara dekhera bidesh jana parni jasto lagxa.
Gym jau bro
I suggest you listen to mahabharata and ramayana during your spare time, you dont have to be a hindu (i’m not one either) or anything just listen to these stories. It will help you learn a lot and might inspire you as well.
You can find these audios in spotify(both english and nepali narrated).
Bro is literally me.
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