How many of you don’t like who you’ve become and wish you were different? Is it possible to grow into a whole new person with amazing personality instead of a piece of shit?What kind of person do y’all aspire to be?
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My suggestion is that don’t try to change yourself, try to improve what you have. First thing is to identify what those are.
But yeah, i feel what you are trying to say. I wanna grow as a person and develop a personality better than what i have right now. I don’t completely hate my current personality but there are so many things i wish was different.
There are many things I have to improve. I am on my way to do that. So good luck to both of us. The fact that you realize that you have to improve is good. You are half way there already.
For me
There is no such thing as ideal. I have made up my mind that whatever life I am living is the ideal and perfect life.
It is possible to grow whole new and peaceful life. Removing bad thoughts, toxic friends circles and exercise is important for reinventing, which I am still trying and learning everyday and I am getting results
Good luck with yours
Giving you a key – Meditation, Self Control
Who is judging who here? If you have real insight into why you think of yourself as a shit personality, only you can change yourself. If you’re feeling like that just because you compare yourself to others, then you may be judging yourself too harshly.
I don’t aspire to be any particular type. I just try to do my duties (at home and at work) to the best I can. I don’t care much about anything else.
Start with knowing where you are and then make incremental changes. Not a total change in a day. Try to add few good stuff daily. It is like cleaning the ink pot, it can only be cleaned by adding a flowing water. It can’t be cleaned by removing the ink. So start eating right food, listening to right stuff, watching good things and doing good things. With you past sanskar you will be tempted to give in. Watch yourself in those moments. Start with cleaning your body, then mind(with intense breathing), you spirit (with satsang, elevating talks and book), your habits(with great habits). Do visualization to help you with that . Write down where you want to be and what you need to get there and go after it. Yes change is possible. Path is difficult but obstacle is just your mind and no one else. Let me know if you need more info
Yes it is totally possible to reinvent yourself. It takes a lot of admiration and hard-work. Look in the mirror and you gotta promise yourself that you’ll never feel that shitty again. That’s it! Now start working on yourself. 6 months is enough for someone to totally reinvent themselves. The key is to stay disciplined. Motivation can only take you so far.
I was different, I used to be an ambivert, and I used to speak chhada words every chance I get, but it’s been like 4-5 years since I changed, I’ve become extremely introverted and isolated person, who doesn’t speak a single curse word, not even sale, masale…I can’t hold a conversation, doesn’t have any female friends, ridiculously quiet. But I’m happy with who I am. Looking back, I feel like that wasn’t me.
remove all of your existing friends, lover, crushes from your life. make new friends who are completely different from your current friends. find something you love to do and want to make a career out of it and socialize ekdam majjale with your new friends. few years ma you will almost completely change as a person.
Yes. Its never too late to EDIT. However, very few people can defeat their ego. How you are now; your ego is a fan. I cant even change what my favorite color :o). The ego affects babies to Kings.