I have one elder sibling. We have age difference of about 6 years . The personality he and I carry is so dissimilar that I even doubt of being his own sister. I dont like the way he treats mom and dad and his wife too. Dad is ill right now he has cancer he has acheived a great milestone in his life for real and now the way my brother talks to him is what disturbs me. I am very very close to my parents from the very young age. They have always been so close to my heart. The incident happened two days ago where my dad said my brother to wear a warm cloths for office the reply he gave was ‘Kei garna sakne haina aafai gayera nikaldisyo ta k lagaune parne ho mailee daraz bata’ That was way to rude reply. Even tho he gives reply like that my dad still says same those things again and again. I shouted at my brother for that behavior. He said being a younger child i have no right to speak i should just stay quiet in my room also a younger female child. He said i was gaining symapthy by being close to my dad and mom. He has used this kind of harsh word from the very young age of mine. He always shouts at his wife for so silly things i even stood up for that he literally slapped me for it. Later after doing that he comes to me and apolize for his behavior But the harm is already done . Whenever his wife spends any money even for us mom dad me for any food or anything he just stops her and asks where do money come from does my mom gives you money for such silly things. She buys it for us only plus it is my mom and dad’s money so why do he needs to get bothered too. I buy clothes he always has obligation in it as per him he buys clothes once a year so i am supposed to do that. What kind of behavior is this. Seriously I see no humanity in him i find him really cruel but still he is my brother but he is wrong in my eyes too. I am younger than him that doesnot mean i am not right. Dad is ill he is the only male in the family he is supposed to at least try to be responsible like dad. He alwaysssss abuses me for no reason at all. He has a problem with my studies too padhera thulo manche bhaye jasto nasoch why would even elder sibiling think like that. A while ago he was speaking one brother who is our dai ko chora he was giving so bad suggestion to him he was just brainwashing him. He asked about bikes then he told him he should buy one and sell the other one he had after cutting the call he laughed and said khutta bacheye ni huntheyo hahahah it was so disturbing to watch too. Why would even anyone do that. I dont know if even i should keep any relations with him in near future.
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>he laughed and said khutta bacheye ni huntheyo hahahah it was so disturbing to watch too.
Your brother just seems like a major douche bag. Maybe even a psychopath
Older siblings doesn’t always translate to being superior. In most cases, they seem wiser because they’ve gone through life stages that their younger sibling have. But that’s not always the case.
Your brother, on the other hand, is just an asshole.
Doesn’t matter if he’s the only earning male in the house or has his issues. Speaking such words to caring parents and family members is never justified.
Psychopath behaviour
No.
Your brother sounds like an insecure asshole
I am glad you stood up to him when he talked to your dad that way.
No I don’t think it’s seniority thing, but more like his personality. Someone definitely needs to tell him to stop being an ass. If he doesn’t listen to the family then a stranger should yell at him.
He might be stressed right now, but that doesn’t mean he can be an ass and treat others like that.
Ugh. Insecure pathetic male who thinks he is superior just for being a male.
He seems to have a narcissistic personality. It is better to stay away from these type of people. Maybe he will realise later in life what kind of douchebag he is when someone treats him the same way he’s treating others .
Sayed only earning male vayera dominance establish garna khojeko hola
Maybe pressure ma Ayera rish pokheko ni huna sakxa
Padera thulo Manche vais nasoch vannu afu vanda successful nahos vanni socheko hola
Bike suggestions diyera khuta vanchiye hunthyo
Maybe he is jealous
Hitting sister and scolding wife
Aba buba ama Lai karauna pitna Milena
Ko Lai rish pokhni baini Ra budi lai
Seems like an asshole move
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yeah your asshole brother is abusing his wife, you and anyone he can get away with. That’s just his personality. The elder sibling being superior is absolute BULLSHIT. I’m an older sister, I’d never treat my partner or family that poorly or slap my sibling… for speaking. You don’t put your hand on anyone as an adult!! That is fucked up. I’m sorry you don’t have anyone to stand up for you and you have to do it for yourself. Hopefully you don’t have to deal with him forever, unfortunately his wife has to. But don’t let him get away. Keep standing up and make it difficult to be an asshole. If you let things slide, that’s when abusers assume there’ll be lighter to no consequences and shit gets worse. He’s a narcissistic abuser.
Most of the time yea.
Superior in what way?
I generally try to give people benefit of the doubt because young people have this one sided perception of older sibling. “He is earning for you guys. Office might be stressful” and stuff but your brother seem like a ass.
Your brother is a asshole. Looks like someone who is pulpulya from all the love he got.
ur brother has inferiority complex