I am a female in my mid 20s. Ghar bata family ko pressure aauthyo bihe ko lagi but ma further padhne vanera baseko thiye. Relationship ma ni nabaseko pani haina but paxi breakup vako thiyo. Then bich ma khasai wasta lagdaina thiyo yesto kura ma. Social media pani chalaudina thiye but college ko kaam parne vayera facebook activate garnu pareko thiyo. Yekdin scroll garda gardai I found one guy. Herda ramro lagyo and he matched mero type so I texted him. We used to text majale nai. He was living in US but ma nepal ma thiye. Time difference vaye pani we used to make time and kura hunthyo. And first call pani usle nai initiate gareko thiyo.
Though he used to not show his feelings but usko busy life schedule ma time nikaleko vanera I used to be happy. Paxi bistari bistari feeling pani badhdai gayo and maile yo kura I didnot kept it secret from him. I was open about how I felt but uta bata chai ajhai I am not clear jasto khale reply aayo. Usle boldai jam na bhaneko thiyo. And kina validate garnu paryo loyalty ta vaihalxa ni vanyo. Tei vayera maile heram na ali ber bhanera bolna banda garina. Like reject pani gareko thiyena tara accept pani gareko thiyena. Ani future ko kura garda pani ah sangai jane timi pani yeta aau jasto kura garthyo. Testo kura nagara jasto vandaina thyo. Malai makha ni parthyo bich bich ma.
But ajkal chai kasto maile ali rush gare ki jasto lagna thaleko cha. Ali kasto kasto lairako cha like ignore garna khojeko jasto lagxa. Phone uthauxa call huncha but message ko chai reply gardaina. Maile k garda thik hola. What should I do now? Yo mixed signal deko hora? Should I stop talking or what? Also hami boleko chai 4 months vako cha.
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Just 4 months and he’s already not giving a shit about replying you back. Do you think you will be happy ? You have already started to complain before the relationship even started. Are you aware of the insecurities, jealousy and more complains that you will be feeling later in future.
Most important is your happiness. If you are happy to wait then do so, but hopefully it brings peace to yourself.
If you were male and the other person was female, you’d have to consider it as rejection.
If he doesn’t put much effort, text ko reply aaudaina bhane, ask for the last time. Kura clear garda better hola.
Timi bidesh ma bhako bhaye nepal ko keta sanga LDR ma bastheu ki bidesh kai keta sanga bihe garera settle hunchau? If yes, continue.
Gahro cha aile.
Kaile bidesh ma settle hunu ani kaile nepal aayera keti lai dependent ma lagnu. US ma ho bhane 5/6 barsa timro LDR huncha if you all last that long, keta ko paper chaina bhane.
Aus ma ho bhane pani 3 /4 barsa lagna sakcha, not sure keta ko status k cha.
In this case, you both are having fun at your prime time/ you both are attracted physically ans emotionally. Everyone needs physical feel so at the end the guy will be seeing someone and you might consider it cheating. Keta kati dukha garera kam/padai garira huncha and if he find someone to talk to over there, he surely will be seeing there someone. Kura gardaima kei farak hunna. Paxi keta le malai play garera chodyo bhanna paudainau, coz you both are in different situation.
Ask him if he wants to be tigether if hes not clear honestly move on! Men know who they want and they know how to pursue a women !
Just tell him how you feel about the whole situation and ask him ki why doesn’t he reply back vanera , usle timlai clear answer dinu parxa yesto ma chai just ask him openly and tell him about timlai kasto feel vaxa usko tyo action garda , open communication garda better hola .
LDTR ma yestai ho Nanu..navete samma kehi pani commit nagarnu. Makkha pani naparnu , pressure pani nadinu. First meet and talk.
A lot of the dudes that live outside the country are in multiple relationships. Not saying the guy you’re talking to is as well but a lot of people that I’ve met including girls are absolute cheaters and it is a matter of worry. Take your time, there is no need to rush.
pessimistic but pro tip : don’t e-date
Time to cut ties. On to the next one.
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He won’t be serious about you guys until you get a visa.
First of all long distance relationship is hard to grasp and even more chance are he may have someone there(just for possiblity), and if you just made decision of liking him form online site so keep that in mind online relationship is now easy we humans are social creatures we need physical interaction, not touch but just being in front is a great thing, so to answer your quest just be clear to him what he want to do and where should you take your friendzone type relation thing, and mark my word if he again says Kura Garde garam future ma ke hunxa so he is not for you, look for someone else or just focus on your study that what you wanted to do remember, otherwise you could have just gotten married when your parents asked, if you want to study then focus on it, relationship goes hand in hand with other thing no need to emphasize one thing more than. Necessary, so just be clear with him and decided on his decision what you will do in your life.