Weekly relationship, sex and sexuality megathread

Weekly relationship, sex and sexuality megathread

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29 thoughts on “Weekly relationship, sex and sexuality megathread

  1. i want to know my sexuality. i knew i liked women way back in 6th grade and showed clear signs of it when i was even younger. i tried watching porn but ended up getting disgusted at the sight of men (i’m sorry its cuz of a trauma. i absolutely detest men). this much should be enough for me to know that i’m not and never will be straight. but a part of me wants to know if i can like both genders at the same time. i’m not a misandrist but i get triggered when i stand near men or even catch the attention of one. so i wonder if me thinking i might be lesbian is cuz of this trauma response. i might be one of those people who falls in love after forming proper connection with them? i value person-to-person connections and personality a lot.

    everything is very confusing and frustrating. i hope to get points helpful regarding my emotional responses and sexuality. can i also get book suggestions?

  2. When I was in school nobody liked me. I was not what people referred as “pretty”. I never had any guy ask me out. Let alone a rumour that anybody liked me. My friends were getting love letters and chocolates out there. The only time I ever got a love letter was when a guy from another section gave me a love letter that was supposed to be delivered to my friend. Same thing till +2. I used to get a lot of DMs from guys. No not telling me I’m pretty. Just saying that “oe tyo aaja timi sanga hidirako keti kasto ramri”. I was just a teenager who also wanted that kind of experience. Just wanting to be liked or wanted. Or whatever you call it.

    Things changed after I left +2. It was kinda like puberty hit me late. And I started experiencing everything that the 13-16-year-old kid me wanted. I even had guys from my school telling me they had a crush on me bla bla. But deep down I kinda knew that it was all because of appearance.

    That brings me to my conclusion. No matter how much they say looks don’t matter. It always feels like it does. I also dated a guy in my “ugly” phase. Who never told any of our mutual friends that we were dating. Even if anybody asked He’d say oh no we’re just friends. (He also said that I was head over heels for him but he didn’t like me to one of our mutual friends).

    Are guys embarrassed to show off their girlfriends if they’re not beautiful? Show off ni pardaina. Just to even tell their friends that they’re dating simply because they’re not that good looking?

  3. I 20 male would like to share my experiences
    As a lot of guys here seem to be inexperienced. And have different views towards what type of guy gets girls and other stuff. I’d like the guys and girls to give a read to my story.

    I’d like to clarify I’ve been the game nerd since childhood and my friend group only consisted of gamers. We only talked about games during class and football the only thing important back then.

    I was decent with my studies never too good never too bad.i was 9th Grade then and I still managed to get a girl during school time though it didn’t last long it was for me wanting to experience boobs for the first time.

    Later during my college time i didn’t have a friend group and i was a loner. I joined MUN and a girl gurung girl somehow found me cute. She openly expressed about it in the MUN paper you get for different countries. And my friends pushed me to propose to her on the third day as it was the proposal day. I asked her out in front of the whole school who attended MUN out of pressure from class mates( note i am not social at all nor did i have friends group so if a nerd can do it you can too). And she became my 2nd girlfriend. But at the time i was talking to a girl in discord but it was for games as always. i broke up with the 2nd girl in a week saying our time doesn’t work as she was management morning faculty and i was in the science day faculty.

    So the girl i was talking (lets call her amy) to turned out to be a 29 year old. Who was faking to be a 21 year old she looked young to me when she sent me pictures. We were just talking everyday for 3 months in . i was grade 12 and we had a 14 years old age gap. Thinking back I now know I was groomed and i didn’t know about it. I don’t want to explain this part as this ruined my life for 2 years i dropped out of college and a lot of shit happened where i was depressed for 3 months. And didn’t come out of my room. And my family pressure was insane too.

    Later when I finally got out of my room slowly i was talking to a girl in the hopes I could find someone like amy. Let’s call her strawberry. I dated the girl. And i was not having it. I still was yearning for amy at this point and i was just 18 too. This was all my fault and I’m the one who ruined it all. But i hope others can learn not to jump into relationships just because they like you or are available. I tried to be as good as i could but it slowly was getting to me.

    I broke up with her thinking I’ll be fine and till i get over all of it i won’t date then i played games all day to distract myself from all of it. Then i met a girl online from dharan. It was a long distance relationship.She looked just like amy in regards to her face and body. And then a toxic relationship started again i blame it all on myself. She was 21 and i was 19. It only lasted 3 months or so. And i realised what i was doing so i left so it doesn’t affect that much later.
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    After that i learned a lot of things so i just didn’t talk to anyone I’d eventually get into a game clan group. But never showed my identity . To anyone just there to play with others. And there were some girls apparently. And i made a best friend there we tried to date for a week but we dropped it saying i wasn’t ready. Let’s call her peach. We played everyday together in voice chat she’s still my one and only friend till this day. And i was getting in a good mental state i started going to college again this time taking Fine arts as a major. And things were going good till i Found out strawberry and peach are friends and strawberry has a beef against peach about peach taking me away from strawberry. And after i got the info i talked to strawberry about us just being friends. She said she wants to try the relationship again. I gave it a lot of thought as it was my fault in the beginning so we gave it a try. Turns out she only did that just so she could ruin what me and peach had thinking we’re in a relationship. She later told me this. I think I did deserve it in a way. But regardless. I lost a friend and didn’t know what to do she was the only one i was open with i didn’t make any friends in college either. Later i told peach everything about what strawberry did. Thankfully she’s still a friend of mine.

    And after all that mess there’s one last one till my current life

    I used to play games. So the group chat of the game has a gay guy in it. He apparently liked me. He talked like a girl in the group and to me too . Everyone thought he was a girl. I was suspicious and thought he was lying as everyone you meet online is a guy until they show proof. And he sent me pictures of a girl who was his best friend apparently he asked her for her pics explaining everything to her how he needed to prove he was a girl by sending pictures. So she agreed on sending hers. So he sent me her pictures. I still didn’t believe him so asked for a video call. Eventually one day he said okay let’s do it and she’s the one who’s on call me with i thought i was legit that she was a girl. But the funniest thing was the girl put her phone on a place and she was telling me how good the sky is and at the same time the same person was texting in the group chat. So i was Sus about it. And the next day they spilled the beans. The guy was sorry about it and asked me to block him. But i had experienced more shit than this and never blocked anyone before so i said it’s okay. And apparently the girl liked me and she wanted to date me. The gay guy told me that.

    ( Even though she liked me and even came to meet me without saying i love you. I still had to say it first soo take notes)

    And yeah we’re one year in and still dating and i do think this is the one. And if i do happen to marry her in maybe the next 5-6 years I’ll edit it that day for the update.

  4. I’ve been in relationship with my bf for 1.5 years . I have shared everything in detail about my first ex with my bf but about my second ex I haven’t shared much clearly. Like I’ve only told him that he loved me , proposed me, did special things for me but he was Chhetri so I had to reject his proposal. Suru ma k sabbai share garnu vanera navaneko ani aba feri paxi share garda kheri suru mai kina vanenau vanne sochxa hola jasto lagera kei vannai sakiyena guys. Will this affect our future? Plus hamro relationship pani ali toxic hudai gako xa and he feels hurt about sexual experiences I had (not sex but other things). So, guys what should I do?

  5. I’m 26 years old virgin guy, successful carrier wise, carrier ma sucess vayesi I’ve been getting girls, and I’m talking to 3-4 girls now, but talk cahi atti nai casual matra vayo, malai sexualize garnai aayena, 1 hrs phone ma kti sanga bolda alik naughty type ko talk kehi hunna, innocent flirting matra vayo. How to move foreward?, How to get them to my bedand end my 26 years virginity strike. Help me pro peoples out here.

  6. I was in sorta relationship with a girl, we considered each other gf and bf but hadnt actually said i love you kinda thing to each other. What happened was a girl i was talking to whom i address as dd was constantly asking to go for some food. Like the girl was stranger as well like i just used to address her as dd. Ani after being asked yoo much i went for the food with her she didnt showed up :v but she told my girl that i went there while she couldnt attend bhanera and my girl broke up with me like she was kinda against me meeting other persons. All i wanna know is, was it really a big deal?

  7. how to meet new people? i am currently working, fresh cs graduate. Haven’t talked to a girl in years (since a bad breakup). College ko belama ni tyeti kti tira dyan diyayna, class ma ni kti theyayna. Aile office ma ni kti nai chaina. I go to the gym, but its not a good place to meet or talk to a girl. Other than that I dont really go out or party (only with close friends). I have no idea how to start talking with girls since I dont meet any irl.

  8. To all the people out there, I am into a girl and I constantly flirt with her, we go on dates and have been to a lot of functions and parties together. Recently, we had sex and it was my first time and I had the best experience of my life. After the deed, she came up and told me that I was her whole world.. To all guys here, is she into me cuz I’m not that sure, I don’t get hints but I’m catching feelings for her.. Is she really into me?

  9. If a girl regularly texts “Good night/morning” or “maam khayeu”, i finding hard to decipher if she’s into me. what do you reckon

    background: talked with her recently. we had gone on a first date, i subtly flirt with her.

  10. Aaile haalsal yo line sunne ma matrai haina hola?

    Btw I am 23M. I have never been into relationship till now. I have tried to confess about my feelings to some of them during my school days but fate ko kura ho milena kei ni. Actually yo kti manche haru sita bhetne ani relationship maa basne bhaneko jasko social circle alik thulo cha usko chai possible hune raicha. Aba mero chai testo khassai social circle nabhako and then kti manche haru sita kura garna pani possible nahune.

    Then I got to explore dating app like tinder, bumble but mostly i got along with tinder. Bhetiyo few kti haru, date ni gaiyo, makeout ni gariyo first time ekjana sita chai 😆, tei among few kti sita bhetda 2 jana Bisexual girls haru ni thiye different times maa. Thikai ho aba experience garne mauka paye maile, euta halka sparkle bhaye jasto hune ekarka bich maa but then agadi kei badhdai nabadhne kura. Feri kti haru ni testai hawa khalko tini haru. Koi koi tah ma sita yeta bolda boldai ni aru afno college tira ko sathi yaa aru koi kta sita bolne garne, sex bhayo uniharu sita bhanera sunaune like WTf. Ma feri dherai humble ra nice bhayera ni hola kti haru le yo faida uthako ra ma ni ustai chutiya, uniharu ko yestai yestai kura haru sundine and kei reaction nadiyera basne.

    Now kura chai kasto bhanda, whomever i meet through any platforms or meetup. Yedi kei reasons le connection feel bhayena or anything uniharu ko mann maa chaina bhane girls have one line to say

    -“Please don’t worry, you will find someone better than me”

    Malai yo line sunda sunda mero ears haru rot bhaisakekaa chan and i don’t know ajhai kati le bhanne chan hola. Aaile aayera yo line le meri life maa kei value add gardaina ra maile yo rejection face garna nasakera bhaneko haina but it is what it is. Sayad yestai ho bhane pachi samma ni yestai chalcha hola jasto cha

    What do you guys have to say on this??

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