So he’s my school friend. Let’s call him “Ramesh” for this conversation. Did SLC in 2004 and we parted ways. Didn’t hear much from him, expect he did had his doctor studies done from KMC and later went to Chicago to specialize in nerve repair.
So he was in town along with some other school friends wanted to get together and set up a Whatsapp group. I referred to another friend, “…ma, Ravi, Raju and Ramesh are coming at 5pm….” and Ramesh was offended. He sent me a personal message to refer to him as Dr. Ramesh.
I didn’t say anything but friend ko circle ma he is just Ramesh and not Dr. Ramesh. Just baffles me ke saro attitude bhanera that we need to refer to him as Dr. Saab! We won’t.
I don’t understand some people show so much of attitude. They’re whatever they are in their workplace – to us they’re just normal people.
EDIT: Based on some questions from the community – we were not best of friends even back then. Just a classmate who sat 3 benches behind. We have only met 2 times after SLC, in 2008 and 2017. This was supposed to be a reunion sort of thing. He lives in the US. I live in Nepal so I’m not hurt in any way. I’m just wierded out how people can become so obnoxious.
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Who even calls their friends by name? Just call ‘Oe M*ji’😂
Doctor saab lai khasi paarne bela vako raicha
If my friend even becomes the Prime Minister, I would still refer them with their name.
I don’t care workplace or casual meet.
Send the screenshot to the group lmfao
He is a dick.
Ramesh wouldn’t be my friend any longer
If he was our friend, we would call him conductor if he tells us to say him doctor lol
Ramesh here. Sorry I asked you to call me Dr. Ramesh. You should actually call me Ramesh, MBBS, MD, DM. I made my wife moan the whole of it and it’s sexier now, at least for me, because I cum so hard & so fast. Even pharmacists are called doctors these days, so please use the whole degree I’ve worked my ass off for.
I’m a Senior Software Engineer but I don’t like when people call me an Engineer saab, Sir or something like Er. Kaali.
I try to make them understand that I’m same as them not different. I don’t want to be known from what I do as a job.
I ask them to please call me by my name or how my behaviour is with you.
Why are you even friend with such a cocky??
Seriously?? Some people are just tools 😂
It is about the dynamics of the group. If he wants to be called Dr, it’s fine. But he would also need to address you as Mr. Now that will create some space between you guys as friends. If he really cherished his friendships he would realize when that space is imposing.
I wanna see actual conversation 😂
Bro I have seen interviews of King/Prince’s friends from Budhanilakantha and they used to refer em by their name and not Shree 5 Bada Maharaj Dhiraj or Adhirajkumar. They simply called ‘Dipendra’, ‘Paras’.
Nerd after he becomes a doc
Afnai friends ma pani k ko doctor ho, haha……
This is a blessing, time to cut him off. Know quite a few doctors who are chill. They don’t expect to be called doctor outside office hours
Mero lado chus bhannu parcha testo lai
“M*ji Ramesh” po raixa tw
I have few dr friends.. And I call them by their own name.. No dr cr er whatever
Doctor haruko bhau badhi bho.
aafno circle ma ta sale , gadha, kukur, m**i, khate, jhyakne nai hun hamra lagi 🤷♂️🤷♂️
Bruh, you deserve better bro
Lol..man your friend seems to have serious self-esteem issues.
Dr. bhanlaan america ma. Nepal maa ta haami chikitsuck bhanchhau. Ke chha chikitsuck ramesh ?
I work in a IT team with multiple PhD holders and some did more than 1 PhD. But they do not like themselves to be called as a Doctor. But they do have written Dr in their desk. I have made some friends whom I met in 2015 and they completed MBBS and one doing MD. They do not like to be called Dr by us either. Deep inside they are the example of “faleko brixya ko hango najhukeko kaha xa ra”.
Now what I think Ramesh might be going through is lack of appreciation. He is so insecure that he needs to be felt like center of attraction to be happy.
I hope your name is not Suresh. If it is, then adding Dr. sounds logical
Bru this is unbeliveable. My fren just beamce doctor such a hble guy i call him dr. But he ggets ahy and never gets offendid if i call him just by his name( i call him dr cuz I’m proud of him and want to tease him bit)
SLC in 2004 💀. Most of us weren’t even born then.
I guess you are more offended than Dr. Ramesh
So he got on your nerves then ?
he became someone unlike you, of course he will have attitude
mero friend circle ma chahi it’s other way around. CA padhdai garekolai CA sahab bhandine lol.
Sounds like your friend Ramesh is joking .. or you are misunderstanding… but very weird that someone who’s your friend would seriously say that .. why is he still your friend?
Send the screenshot to the group. If you’re a male, add spice to it saying “yo m*ji lai sab le Dr vannu parne re hai, guys. Aba bata yo Dr. M*ji hai..”
If I was that guy: “Don’t call me Loojaw. Call me Harasser Loojaw”.