Is this a nepali family thing or just my parents, for example while sitting close to each other and talking my father randomly puts his finger in my belly button. And my grandmother is next level, she will just pull up my shirt and say, katro thulo bhudi, or randomly place her hand in thighs and be like, kasto thulo thigra ho…. similar things with my back, head and all. Also, randomly spanking my ass when I am walking. I don’t think it is sexually or anything but it just annoys me very much, like have some boundaries. Do you guys also experience similar things? And did you tell them about it, if so what happened, because I want to talk to them about it, but feel like they will just say like phone calauna disturb vho tai bhayara risako? Now that phone stuff came up, why is it that I am a phone addict when they spend more time on the phone then me? I stop the youtube videos when they come into my room or we are at restaurant/social place so that I can interact with my parents and my parents just come into my room and say nothing just to annoy me and when I ask “ka vayo?”, thay are like phone calauna na payara kisako, phone addict and all, and after all that they will go to there room and use phone, while eating and while we are talking too. Like wtf?
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My dad acts like a kid at home sometimes. He’ll playfully show off his non-existent karate skills saying “her ta kasto skill xa mero” and proceeds punching the air near ur face, barely enough to touch you. Sometimes the punch connects and it hurts. I tell him to stop but he continues. He does this to mom and my brother too. When he does it to bro, my bro pretends to be tough. I complain to my mom and mom scolds him “yo bau kati chaleko”.
If he does it to mom and accidentally hits her, my mom beats the crap out of him lmfao. I don’t mean literally but yea. I’ll say “thikka paryo papa”
That’s a weird ass family.
Who tf puts a finger on someone belly button randomly lol.
Gonna be blunt and ask How much is your age ,weight and average screen time? My best guess is you aren’t physically active and stay indoors most of time which caused your parent to believe that you are a phone addict. And all those weird touches are signal which indirectly applies ki Weight ghata as you mentioned having thulo bhudi in post.
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tl;dr **Gym jau**
> Do you guys also experience similar things?
NO
ah aba dashain ma tika lagauna parxa , teti nidhar ma choko pani harrasment vandai post gara hai , video tape gara ani rape case lagaidau hai
Yeah it’s weird IMO because my parents just don’t touch me without any reason to. Maybe I was just raised in a family who understands what personal space is and yours don’t.
It way be weird but its all love in a family. Don’t think otherwise, physical touch is important in any love.
That’s not normal in the slightest. Both of them are enabling each other to do stuff like that.
How old are you? If you are above 12, touching your belly button, thighs, and stomach is totally weird. They need to understand it gets very uncomfortable getting touched everywhere once you are a certain age. You need to tell them. It’s not okay at all.
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No, that seems random, while patting in the back and all seems okay, thulo thigra, and belly button wtf?
what the fuck
Totally can relate,not my mom though it’s my sister. If I happen to be in position where my ass is directed towards her, I am spanked and she goes” yes majja aayo”. And my mom,aunt and thulo mami does that katro thulo tigra kalko kura.
Spanking your ass, WTF that is too weird
Nope, mines are chill all they say is ‘K HUDAI CHA’ and thats the end of conversation.
Hmm I don’t know, I don’t think that’s normal
I am 19 and but I still lay beside my dad hugging him.He is very old 60+ and I like rubbing cheeks with him cause that’s how I feel like I’m showing my love for him. That’s it, I thought sabaile testo garxa.
But he irritates me everytime. Basya hos, sutya hos, padira hos, he comes and hits me and says sakxau vane xoyera dekhau and pretends to run away. I know it is playful but sometimes it is annoying. I once got very annoyed and punched him very hard. After that he stopped for like 2 days and continued again.
Nope. My grandpa is a jedi. He uses force.
WEIRD