Forgetting Obsessions

Forgetting Obsessions

Kahile kahi obsession huchha wth people or with things. In case of person, it usually starts from a small encounter. You soon begin to like the person and there its goes. Tespachhi when you are distant from them both physically and socially, you begin to like not the person but the idea of the person.
A multitude of problems start from there. You venture on the path of envy. You begin having negative emotions about people that are close with the person that you are obsessed with. At this point, it is safe to call this an obsession.

Tyo manchhe ko sabai bad qualities haru ignore hudai janchha.

Mero case ma chai, I started hating the person itself for the lack of their acknowledgement for my admiration. In reality, I never put in any effort. Tara I think tyo chai right garey maile. If I had put in effort, mero expectations ajhai dherai hunthyo. And if it failed, I would have gone down a more negative path.

But aaja chai, I feel free from it. How I did it?

Well:

1. Try engaging more in your hobbies.
2. Try finding more of their bad qualities and realize that they are not perfect.
3. Go out in the open and get some sunlight. Increase serotonin (I’m no doctor)
4. Interact with people who have opposite qualities(bad ones) of the person you are obsessed with.
5. Finally, avoid seeing them in social media(social media is the culmination of people’s best looking times)


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