Need advice. GF still has feelings for her ex, what to do?

Need advice. GF still has feelings for her ex, what to do?

I feel like I am just an option now…….non of her posts are relevant to me, they feel relevant to her ex. She IS waiting for her ex to come back, it’s only been 1 month since we got into relationship, I really love her.

She has my FB account and I do her’s, so when I was just playing with her account, I saw messages of she and her friend, and it was of today, they were talking about my GF’s ex, where my GF said, “Testo mari garne wait ta garya xaina, tara pani hope chai xa return hunxa bhanera”

Things you need to know: Long-distance relationship she and I are in, she’s started to make late replies, all of her posts are irrelevant to me and more relevant to her ex, I really fucking love her, I feel like I am just an option.
I am in such a pain and agony right now, while writing this

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21 thoughts on “Need advice. GF still has feelings for her ex, what to do?

  1. Dont fall in love with people in 1 month kid. Take at least 2 3 months to know that person. This is a losong war for you. Just let the girl know and dump her ass. If you dont have that energy no girl will ever like you.

  2. Bro lemme tell you ,my ex was talking with her ex and i didn’t know she had feelings for her dumb as me put my heart and soul to make her mine , although she seemed really interested in me but in the end she went back to her rando ex . My mental health my academics all went vain also i had plenty of hair-fall so,dont make that mistake i repeat break up asap

  3. JUST WALK OUT MY BROTHER ….

    One will never be valued the way they deserve yesto situation ma. Things people do for their loved ones ,the compassion , the understanding, sense of responsibility, obligation, effort , honesty , love and respect jasari hunu parne ho , kailei ni paudainau bro timle yo situation ma . You will just be an ANOTHER ONE RATHER THAN THE SPECIAL ONE .

    Kei nabhani just walk out . You might want to confront , bla bla and stuff , dont. Simply walk out. You will realize it to be a wise decision.
    Best of luck brother . Peace 🕊️ ✌️

  4. Don’t cry infront of a woman who is already prepared
    The best thing you can do is leave her asap.
    Aile tmi, ma ta dherai maya garxu xodna sakdina hyan tyan vandai basxau ani tesle xodesi maile ta maya garekai thiye teini ma sita kina yesto vayo vandai fb ma ex ko sad post ma love react hannu parne bela aauxa.
    Xoddiyepaxi pani tesko profile stalk hanne kaam chai nagara natra move on vaidaina.

  5. You are not in love with her …its just attraction or maybe u r too lonely rn… don’t fall for such girls who only keeps u as an option..stay hard and be strong brother… leave her and maybe you will find someone else who actually loves you

  6. Yo break up vako kti haru lai heal garna janu nai bekkar ho bro.(I don’t know how you started but yeah). They are literally parasite and once they move on, they dump you. So get tf out of this ASAP. I know your heart must be wrenching reading all these comments but all the bros out here tryna save you. Just make yourself believe it’s just an attraction and dodge this bullet.

  7. It’s time to let her go, and even if you don’t, she will. I have been in this situation. We stopped talking a month ago. She told me clearly to my face: ‘I don’t care about you, but I still care about her like an idiot and continue to stalk her profiles and texts regularly. It’s hard, but it’s a wise decision. She was the person I loved more than myself. I have made some mistakes like I used to lie a lot and did some bad things that I will regret for a lifetime but yeah never doubt yourself. Remember that girls love the guys who focus on their career, have some ambitions, have hobbies.

  8. its time to leave her, not even breakup because you aren’t even in a relationship, leave being valued you aren’t even being respected as a human. you are just a rebound and you never want to be anyones rebound, its life draining as well as emotionally and mentally scarring not worth it.

    Leave her, find yourself and then invest your emotions on someone else.

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