My grandfather who is at the age of exactly 90, is in his death bed and here are some of the things that I appreciate about him and some which I am not fortunate about.
He had to face a lot of struggles in his life mainly because he got orphan at the age of 2. His mother died after 5 days of his birth and his father when he was 2. Despite that ,his brothers and sisters were also out of contact after some years ,and he started to live at relative’s house. He says that some of them prolly disappeared and some of them died and there is no any evidence of any of my grandfather’s siblings.
As he is the only grandfather I had in my whole life , here are some few things I was not blessed on.I never felt that grandchild love. Also I never had that love and closeness kind of vibration with my grandfather, but of course there is biological love. I never had a single life talk with my grandfather and I kind of feel so regret that I could’ve atleast had a talk with him few years back when he was able with his consciousness.
He has 8 childrens 18 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren, but he never stopped to work and struggle for his life.
Please stay with us as much as you can 😉
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He never felt the love and warmth himself so he was unable to pass it on to you. Hence you didn’t know enough to create the love and warmth you desired. Forgive him and yourself.
Just be present with him, even unspoken words convey a lot! All people have their own unique situations and experiences that define them and their behavior. I salute your grandpa for his perseverance and raising a family!
May he rest in peace ❤️
I can feel you bro. Be with him. Enjoy the moments
My prayers for him!
Maybe he didn’t know how to love or show love to others because of his difficult upbringing. So forgive him for that.
Spend some time wid em
Prayers and speed recovery to him. And don’t blame yourself take care 🙂
We create the world out of our understanding. His world doesn’t include much about love, relationship as much as you understand. He is passing by from this life. Wish him good luck moving into another form.