Improving conversation skill

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2. Ek plate faksa momos khanu hunxa?

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3. Try this next time: have a generic question like namaste k cha, then ask Aaja kasto garmi/ jado.

   Then you say something you did. Aaja jado bhayera majja lay tato chiya khaye or yo garmi ma cold drink khana majja aaucha. The goal of saying that is to let your guard down so that the other person feels comfortable about letting their guard down (guard down bhanna lay sharing information).

   If they add on to your information, for example yes chiya ta malai ni mitho lagcha or malai ta black tea matrai maan parcha, then you show interest on what they shared and expand on the thing they shared. For example black chiya ma k k halnu huncha, or Kina black chiya ra milk maann pardaina? By this time you have already started a conversation now all you gotta do is repeat the process by giving them some Information about yourself but more importantly showing interest on theirs.

   If they don’t add on for example they just say “ aah “ usually means they are not really interested. Then try adding facts for example, mero gau ma dherai jado bhayera 2 Jana hospital gayo. If they respond then follow above process, show interest on what they say. If they dot respond then they are not really interested.
   * The above is what I typically do and has worked for me. This doesn’t mean that it’s gonna work with your personality but it’s a god start. The example I gave above is for understanding purpose only pls don’t use the same example I have and come back to me saying it didn’t work. 😂

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4. Xora/xori lai kasto xa, asti bhai sanga kura vako thiyo call ma tra hajur haru ghar ma hunuhunthiyena,

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5. k xa halkhabar? ghara sabai sanchai? aru k chaldai xa? eti vanesi ekxin lajaayera basne.
   “Ma esso kitchen tira jaanxu hai halka kaam xa” vanera niskiney

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7. ani ghar ma sabai lai sanchai cha?,
   dherai pachi bhet vayo,
   khana khanu vayo ta?

   these are few motos i often use

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8. ask about something new or interesting they are doing recently. they will tell much more openly. u can ask question by not knowing the topic or genuine interest.

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9. Recently, I felt so embarrassed. I went to visit a relative where someone has died. I was listening to them. I don’t know what I was thinking, I just giggled (literally laughed). Everyone noticed it. I didn’t know what should I have done after that.

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10. Uncle hajur ko sex life kasto cha?

    Yedi aunty ko untimely death vayo vaney hajur le ko sanga bihe garnu huncha?

    Extramarital affair ko barey ma aunty lai taha cha?

    Raksi kattiko khani huncha?

    Facebook matw hawa hawa fohori page follow garnu hudo rahecha khub boka buda sudhriya chadai natra pachi dukha paula vanchu matw sablai ani tespachi busy vayera hola hamro ma aaunai chodnu vayo.Ajha tyo din ma chitai sutey bahira mummybaba ra uncle thulo thulo swor ma kunni k kura ma discuss gardai hunuhunthyo.

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11. Ani…

    tapai ko bihe bhayo ta?

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12. If you run out what to ask, tell them about yourself. You may have something going on in your life at the moment. Share it. People usually come up with questions in response. Try to keep it going…

    I am poor at small talk too. But whenever I feel like what to ask, I turn to myself and share something that other party don’t know yet. It helps.

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