so basically i was talking to this guy whom i met on sept 8 , we met online and started talking. He said he was here for only 1 and half months for holidays, he’ll get back to india for studies. That time he only had 8 9 days in nepal. We talked for 8 9 days. those 8 9 days were so fun . Talking about various things. He went india after that, he said he has various things to do as it is his final year . I said okay , i can wait for you . You just complete your studies. we can talk after that. he said he’ll talk to me after 6 7 months. At that time , i just said ok. But now I just need him, I have called him, texted him but he is not replying. for whatever time we had talked i felt he is really nice guy. I can wait for him till the time he completes his studies if I am sure he don’t have anyother one . Or he also feels same as me. But i don’t know anything. It’s all virtual so it’s all messed up. I feel like I’ll wait and then we’ll met but whatif he doesn’t like me in real. What if it becomes expectation vs reality . So i am hell confused. I really need him rn. But he is not available. should i explore my options or stick to him only. But i don’t wanna hurt anyone in this thing. If i’ll talk to new guy but my head is stuck with previous guy what to do. hell confused. IK some of you will feel I am dumb or whatever but i need some different perspective . Ready for any advice.
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As far as I know, online relations stay online only for few months and then dissappear
Holding on to 8-9 days of talk??
Please move on.
None is that busy
it’s all about priority
The only one who is hurting is you. You should move on 🤷🏻♀️
There’s a higher chance that he has already found someone
Well I hope you didn’t sent any nudes.
Yea Nepal ktA i haru ko jindagi ujhaad xa Nepali thitha haru lai herana aba .. move onn
What?😂😂 8-9 days of online talk and you’re taking it this serious? You are very naive. If you wanna talk to a new guy then you need to forget about the old guy because it’s just gonna hurt the new guy in future. Best option is become mature and realize that 8-9 is nothing, either you or him wanted to talk just to pass time
As a fellow Nepali male in the prospective dating pool, I find this extremely concerning.
This is an avenger’s level threat.
No one is busy 24/7. If someone doesn’t reply, they’re either disrespectful or has his own demons that you can’t fix. Delete the contact and please speed up the healing so we can stop accidently hurting people we want to love in future.
Behen, similar situation happened with me. Move on. If it is meant to be, you will find him again. If not, you will be wasting your time.
People who love each other make sure they are emotionally available even if they arent physically present.
I am surprised girls like you still exist. I mean waiting for a guy with whom you texted for few days, that’s very rare. I wish you all the best and hope you find your love.
My advice for you will be, before starting a relationship again ask him why he ghosted you and didn’t reply to your texts and calls. Also, ask him if he is seeing anyone or he had other past relationships. Watch out for any red flags coz disappearing for entire 6-7 months without a word is unheard of. We are in digital era, he could text back instantly anytime he had a break, he doesn’t have to write you post cards or chitthi
Well I don’t think he likes you enough to be in a relationship with you. If he wanted to, he would have gone to great lengths to communicate with you. It’s not fair to hold onto and get stuck in a relationship that hasn’t even started. It would be wiser for you to take your mind off him and focus on something else for a while. Don’t worry this feeling will eventually fade away after you stop thinking about him and let go. Takecare sis💗
Damn you really are dumb Lol, Just move on if you really were the one for him then he would have made sure to hold you into his life.
He will come back, I can guarantee you 💯 but when his other girl is done with him.
Sabdhan raho satark raho
Wtf, what are you ? 13yrs old.
It was all online, and he might be already busy with his life. If you can’t get over him do not date anyone for the time sake until he’s totally off your mind.
Just wait fore few days and it would all vanish.
you don’t even know if he likes you back and you’re willing to wait for him? for what exactly? the only person you hurt in this whole situation is yourself. i feel like you misinterpreted the connection to be more than what it is.
Never trust a guy you found on internet. You dont know the person behind that screen. Just talk to other peoples. A lot of peoples. Explore your options. But dont do anything you dont want them to do to you.
Don’t be a fool. Move on.
Girl, you developed attachment issues with that person. And you just had a situationship. The undefined relationship seems to be one-sided. As he doesn’t seem to be serious and committed like you.
Don’t wait on him, explore other options. Just trust the process and go with the flow. You will find someone.
😆😆 Hahahah i remember once i made a comment on one of the nepali music channel on yt. Some guy replied to it and we casually talked there in satire. Later, we small talked of stars. It was past 4 when we wished each other goodnight. He deleted his yt account a few days later. Idk who he was but i still miss him sometimes. He was effortlessly funny. Now he is lost forever ahhhhhh.😭
Geez, why am i so delusional.💀
Y not just date a Nepali guy?
I got ALOT of nice guy friends looking for a gf, they just too shy to approach women and spends most of their free time doing sports and hiking.
Most of my friends grew up abroad, are polite, funny & certainly above average looking + they r tall, comes from decent family and have a house in KTM .
Your age is < 20 ?
I felt like it was me.
While waiting for someone can be a testament to patience and loyalty, it’s essential to consider your own happiness and well-being. Life is too short to put everything on hold for someone who may or may not come back. Sometimes, exploring new opportunities can lead to unexpected joys and personal growth. It’s okay to prioritize your own feelings and needs in the journey of love and connection
You should focus on something less important this to be busy and distracted :
YOUR CAREER
Girl, explore your options. If a guy doesn’t want to talk to you or ain’t giving you time, why are you pondering over him?? 8-9 days of chat is not relationship, and trust me you can find much more interesting guy than him. Don’t devalue yourself waiting for him to get back to you.