yo feeling chai malai hijo bata aairako cha. ma 2nd sem ma ho aile and bachelor complete huna ni ajhai tannai baki cha. pachi gayera jasari ni bidesh nai janey soch banako chu. 12 sakesi chai bidesh jana diyenan ghar ka ley because dai pani gako thena. aile dai ko bachelor sakkina lagyo so he is planning to go abroad. ani ailey aayera chai my mum said ta pani jasari ni janey nai vayesi kk garni ko gardai gar pad . 12 sammma chai they used to tell nepal mai kam gar . ani mummy le yesto vanni bitikai i felt i have grown up soo much that afno mummy baba lai chodnu parney time aayecha. My mum and dad entirely left their happiness and life for us. ani now when they will need us we won’t be here. afno afno life banauney time aayecha . ani ma chai sanai bata ghar bata tada nagako bachha jailey ni ghar mai. ma nai tada vayesi how they will feel. yo kura sochera nai i feel so bad. how will they survive without us. ani mata jasari ni bihey garera janu nai parcha but dai pani hudaina mummy baba sanga so idk this deep hurt.Ik time heals . ekai choti dherai overthink garey maile ,this shit will happen slowly but definitely .just wanted to share how am i feeling.
View on r/Nepal by Waste-Credit6999
Related:
it is quite depressing leaving our parents for our future as they are growing old they have done so much for us aaba bistari umer badhdae jada xora xori sath ma hunu parne tara sabai tada janchan
the things our parents do for us myan this shit hurts
malai ni paila tystai hunthyo derai nasocha baru aaila jaty time cha baba mumy ko kura suna bhneko mana tty ho aaru k bhanu
Leaving your parents and being on your own in abroad is tough specially when you get sick. You have to take care of yourself and no one’s going to do things automatically for you like your parents did back at home. I’ve been sick for the past few weeks and my father told me that he couldn’t sleep thinking that his child is sick in some other country and he can do nothing about it.
I feel you bro. Dd ra ma thiyem, ddko bihe vaisakepaxi bidesh janu vayo ani ma pani sathiko laye laya mai layera bidesh aaye. 90% of times yo decision thik gare vanne hunxa but parents bata tadha huda sarai regret hunxa.. baru thorai salary vayeni parents sanga basnu parne jhai hunxa. Nepalma huda bidesh basne ko lifestyle matra dekhera aaihale, aile yaha paisa ta xa, afule chaheko j kurapani afai kinna sakne vako chu but I guess tyo satisfaction kailai audaina. That’s the price we have to pay for being born in Nepal. Bidesh najau naau kasailai vandena ma, but decision is yours. Yedi malai feri yo choice vayo vane chai ma Nepal jo farkinxu hola, sayad pailai farkisathe hola but Nepali society dude.
You are sooo meee sister you are so me. Ma ta bihe garepachi husband lai etai ghar banaune bhanchhu bhanne socheko chhu ani sabai sangai maita ni najeekai hunchha
That’s why I’m never gonna leave nepal
This realisation never hits early, but it happens when we really see our parents grow old. Like they going thinner and thinner day by day ani the way their body reacts, knees pain hune ani dherai hidna nasakne. I am just 18 ani mero parents are nearly 55. They’re going to retire soon. They’re getting old. Mainly yo kura younger child lai dherai affect garcha as they are just growing haina ani they see their parents grow old day by day ani losing energy. I really don’t know what to do about this. Tei vayera, I want to spend my youth with them because I know yo time can never come back. Please everyone make each time with your parents worth it hai… jindagi ma jati nai achieve garepani parents ko happiness is also really important.
Ghar ki bahot yaad aati hai
The same.. Eklo xoro.. Parents already over 50. All my neighbor friends already in abroad, building home and buying lands already and I’m still studying and no chance of going abroad leaving parents.
You have the choice. Either to leave parents and live a comfortable life but in nepal it may be hard but you will be with your parents. Sukha dukha ma ghar pariwar sanga is dherai important 2nd sem mai xa ajhai 3 barsa baki bidesh jana xodera jana garo bhako xa bhane you can easily stay here bidesh ma ni garo xa nepal ma ni prepare hune ho aile dekhi bhane easily you can do great in nepal too.
i have just 11 days left to stay with my parents, i’m trying yo make most out of it. sydlyf!