Hey, its me again !
We are sliding and gliding on the wheel of time till we slip at some point and get lost in void of foreverness. Sano sano ma school gaiyo, kheliyo, j hos chill ma gayo jindagi but growing older how many of us are realising that we are not just doing anything different but living as per the script god knows who created.
Like bihana uthexa , college/workspace gaxa ani then reading/working on something being fucking disrespected by teachers/seniors/or anyone regarding study/work progress, nobody owns us right? But irony is that we are okay with it, we are okay to be disrespected, played with, judged and for what? That’s to cling on the circle if life till the day we slip.
Aba let’s be real , this sounds fascinating but this is the reality of the world. Everyone tries to do something different and stand out but someone succeds and someone fails to do so. Ho yei ho hamle nabujeko kura, life chai aru ko hisab ma chalexa vanni ani success k ho vanera chai tei aru lai nai define garna dini? My definition of success is Everything we do and we are doing is success, getting born, learning your first alphabet, getting your first maths problem done, tying shoelaces on your own the first time , not giving up and living you life while expecting and working to be that future you. Please Don’t agree with me, DEFINE SUCCESS ON YOUR OWN.
This post is for everyone like me who doesn’t feel anything for what they do , searching reason for everything we do , want to quit but just can’t because of the dim ray of hope existing somewhere inside us. Never let that ray fade never let go. DEFINE SUCCESS ON YOUR OWN.
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For me, if I don’t have to think twice before purchasing anything then I would consider myself financially successful. For the emotional aspect, I would consider myself successful if I am happy and content and don’t question my life.
Borrowing from Earl Nightangle
THE DEFINITION OF SUCCESS
First, we have to define success and here is the best definition I’ve ever been able to find: “Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal.”
A success is the school teacher who is teaching because that’s what he or she wants to do. A success is the entrepreneur who start his own company because that was his dream — that’s what he wanted to do. A success is the salesperson who wants to become the best salesperson in his or her company and sets forth on the pursuit of that goal.
A success is anyone who is realizing a worthy predetermined ideal, because that’s what he or she decided to do … deliberately. But only one out of 20 does that! The rest are “failures.”
Rollo May, the distinguished psychiatrist, wrote a wonderful book called Man’s Search for Himself, and in this book he says: “The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice … it is conformity.” And there you have the reason for so many failures. Conformity — people acting like everyone else, without knowing why or where they are going.
We learn to read by the time we’re seven. We learn to make a living by the time we’re
30. Often by that time we’re not only making a living, we’re supporting a family. And yet by the time we’re 65, we haven’t learned how to become financially independent in the richest land that has ever been known. Why? We conform! Most of us are acting like the wrong percentage group — the 95 who don’t succeed.
success is a goal that i will never achieve. a goal that will keep me alive. success is dying someday and not regretting how i lived . success is a feeling, a feeling of peace i will feel when i am dying
Success is relative. Holds a different meaning for everyone. For some it might be getting rich, for some it might be being able to live without money, for some it might be pleasing people etc
For me personally, success is a myth. There’s good times and there’s bad times both. Life is a journey with the only destination being death
Success is accomplishment. This can be from viewed from many perspectives… You seem to be interested in personal success, more than say the success of an idea or a civilization… In all cases, accomplishment implies a goal that was achieved.
Goals normally imply desires, or aversions. For example, you want to feel full, you don’t want to feel hungry. As we age, goals evolve. Cumulated accomplishments lead to what you might generally recognise as success. A content mature individual.
Funny what this says about the modern cult of capitalist success… Where overconsumption is a desirable goal.
Success to me is almost like the teaching about Bodhisattva. No one can truly have real complete success until everyone does.
Copied a quote over.
What is success?
To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate the beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch Or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded!
-Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Success is when you have more than your neighbour or equal to them. That might be financial, emotional aspects or anything.
Yeti kamau ki sala 7 pusta le moj hanun
Khana launa pugos Ghar auda Harmony ramailo environment hoos teti vaye pugxa.
Thank you so much to everyone who has been here or who will be here. See! We are not alone.
Personally to say, I feel as if success is just a state of mind blended up with the karma or doings.
It’s true that a person’s limit of desire and hunger for success goes up till infinity, the more he/she achieves, the more his/her desires peaks up. And that’s completely normal but what I think is we should remain happy by doing the things that gives us the sense of accomplishment. My parents used to say just stay happy no matter what, but I never agreed with them as deep inside I knew they only wanted me not to suffer. But, I gradually realized staying happy is not the way, infact we should do the things, get attached with our karma and responsibilities that will aid to our fulfillment and will make us happy.
Problems in our life come and because of which we get too much anxious and sometimes we get completely wrapped up with them. But, it’s really necessary to navigate through the right direction in the right time. Whether we have someone to guide us or not, we should always listen to our inner heart, what it really wants and what is tying it up or giving it pain. So, we should always feel the sense of liberation, if not we should do the things that gives us liberation just like taking off a needle that got pierced in our hand and is giving us pain.
Why am I saying all these….because I feel like success is a state of mind or the byproduct of our mindset which comes from our self happiness, like are we really happy from inside or loving what we are doing, and also liberation, like are we coping up with the problems the right way and getting into right direction, as the problems are inevitable in life. Because it’s true, no matter how high you reach you will never get the sense of fulfillment if you are not satisfied with what you are which ultimately leads to misery.
Real success achieved or successful person is Priyanka Karki for example.
Boring life divorced. She went for her dream. It became successful by both her determination and luck (right Popularity time for social media during that time)
Got offered in many films/music videos
Became hugely Popular
Married to her love life
Massive support by both families/fans
Got her own show. Gets invited to the show.
Gets perks and freebies from brands and Ads.
Life successful. Had she not made her right decision at that time, she would have been still working in US.
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