Is it ok to hit a women in the following scenario?

Is it ok to hit a women in the following scenario?

“I am a 30-year-old man. I have been in a relationship for over 13 years now, and I’ve known this woman for more than 15 years. I consider myself a peaceful man who finds solace in meditation. For more than a dec.de, I haven’t raised my voice to anyone since my mid 20s (except for my mom and her) buy i have been in plenty of fights with other people when i was in my early 20s.

We got married 3 years ago, and it’s been 9 months since we started living together. Today, as we were lying in bed, she playfully bit my nipples, and my reaction surprised both of us. Though I did my best to control myself in that moment, I ended up hitting her. I had promised myself long ago that I would protect her and never let anybody harm her, but today i was the one who did it. I hit her ears and she is bleeding from her right ears”

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21 thoughts on “Is it ok to hit a women in the following scenario?

  1. If I bite your nipples, sure hit me, but that’s your wife. You’re retarded if you think she deserved it. There’s still time, apologize and ask her to bite your nips again.

  2. If she “playfully” bit the guy’s nipple then how is it justified for him to hit her with such force that she is bleeding from her ear? Why are you even questioning whether it is ok? It is fucked up that the OP’s reaction to something playful but unexpected from his wife was to punch her in the ear hard enough to make it bleed. No, this is completely unacceptable.

  3. Don’t be surprised if she files for divorce. I’m not gonna white knight and say it’s never okay to hit a woman. The ONLY time hitting anyone, men or women is in self defense and you are clearly in danger.

    You made her bleed out of her ear for nipple play? That requires a lot of force. Don’t give us the I meditate and I’m peaceful person bullshit. If you can’t communicate without using your fist you dont deserve to be in a relationship. That’s just domestic abuse.

    You didn’t come here to ask in earnest if its okay to hit a woman, you already know you’re in the wrong. Like a classic narcissist you came here seeking approval and justification for your action. Cut the bullshit, man the fuck up and apologize to her instead of posting on Reddit looking for validation. Possibly seek some help for anger management.

    I’ve seen domestic abuse first hand and have a feeling if she forgives you, this ain’t gonna be the last time you hit her out if anger. I honestly hope she leaves your ass.

  4. No, it’s not ok brother. I don’t know why you are trying to validate hitting your wife. Apologise to her, since it seems accidental but if happens again get some help from medical professionals.

  5. Is this a shit post? First of all, it’s never okay to hit a woman in any scenario. Even if they’re trying to harm you, use restraint. I can’t comprehend how you actually made her bleed and possibly caused ear damage for just that. You both need therapy.

  6. How did you even think it is okay to even ask if it is okay to hit a woman in whatever scenario that too your wife?? It is only wrong…

    My elder sister slapped me when I was younger, and because my head was small, my ears were busted.. thankfully, i didn’t go fully deaf but my ears are even more sensitive. You could’ve or might have done serious damage to her ears man… please at least I hope you’re sane enough to go see a doctor rather than sitting here asking strangers “if it’s okay to hit your wife”

  7. Whattt haat le handai ma Bleed ta nahunaparne maybe timro nails le lagyo and ear ,eye are sensitive ,take her to the hospital ASAP.kei chaina jiskidai bhaho freaky bha bela.Ek taal seggs garyabhaye solve hunthyo /ur favourite gfs position sex would have solved her freakyness rather than doing this lol.Aba kati mahina uslai garo huncha [bichara.You](https://bichara.You) are an asshole bro .you didnt understand your wife tait

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