how many of u have are in the age 18-22 and have not been in an relationship yet?

how many of u have are in the age 18-22 and have not been in an relationship yet?

hi,so i’m 20 and not been in an relationship yet.I have no trouble getting along w this fact but still at times i do feel lonely & unlovable(specially at times like hanging out w friends who are couples,having to be third wheel,seeing insta posts of friends and other so many times).How do u guys feel about this? Not that I’m ugly or don’t have rizz😂but still idk i have never had the interest to indulge in this till now,but i’m feeling like i’m missing out on sth.
Edit:i just realised my eng sucked in the title like wtf😭ignore the way i wrote it just feel the emotion


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29 thoughts on “how many of u have are in the age 18-22 and have not been in an relationship yet?

  1. same here. In my case, I’m so used to being single and spending my time alone that even when I feel loney and think about trying to make one, just the idea of giving time to someone else stops me from thinking.

  2. 22 and never been in relationship. Seeing some immature couples makes me feel I am happy and free from those trauma but deep down I want to someone to be with me(mature relationship) .
    Never had any opposite gender friends and no any confidence to talk to them. Now I have few opposite gender friends for basic conversation.
    The things I feel I am missing is just experiences and stories to remember during my old age😂😂. Also I don’t want any meaningless drama and stress in the name of memories.
    Main point is I never got chance to get into relationship as I couldn’t interact to opposite gender and at this point I am just living my life and waiting for miracle to happen.😂

  3. I mean you are missing out on a lot of trauma! If thats what you’re worried about lmao okay now I’m going to be honest it’s time consuming for this age and genuinely people are immature which makes it insane to be with them they have fluctuating feeling but if it’s a right one you know a sane person it’s definitely a fun partnership top notch! So it really depends on who you pick out of mostly insane young people lmao hope this helps

  4. You are still 20 but you can slowly seek some potential match go to social gatherings as much as you can, where you can meet people your age. Don’t jump in tho until 22-23.

  5. Same here bro!!
    I mean I feel like relationship isn’t for me. Tbh I want to be in a relationship but I get stuck on talking stage.
    Since I’m introvert, I always sound so uninterested even if I’m interested. The guy feels ignored and leave me. Actually I’m ambivert so I need time. I can’t maintain a convo that easily.

  6. I’m in that age range (older side) and it’s bearable as long as you don’t think about it. I haven’t been beyond the talking stage (that too, only once). Almost all of my dead-single friends have found someone by now and I’m one of the few left. Sometimes, I get stuck in fool’s paradise, like the guy in Dhoom movie who goes down the rabbit hole of imagination on the first sight of a girl. I show no interest in people interested in me, and the people I’m interested in, do the payback. Never slid into DMs of anyone, coz everyone appears taken. However, I believe I’ll find someone worthwhile soon.

  7. been in “a” relationship at a very young age and tbh felt like i was just there to be there. never felt any genuine connection or love. i mean i do care about her even tho we don’t talk anymore but it just felt like i was trying to act like someone who i never was and never will be. now at 19 living life with a mindset that i will eventually find someone with whom i might even be willing to walk into the battlefield if i could just hold her hand. until then will be living my life trying to be better everyday.

  8. Well, not being in a relationship don’t have that much effect than that of not having an opposite gender friend so, i would like to insist on making and understanding that dynamic first which ultimately eases your way to relationship. Knowing the thinking and reasoning of opposite gender as a friend will make you aware of where to put effort and where to make yourself prepared.

  9. Solution:

    If there are even no. of single guys, we just randomly pair guys into a nice couple.

    If there are 2n+1 guys, then all 2n guys take turn sucking the 1 guy off.

    Sorry, I might be overthinking.

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