I am gonna go straight to the point. I DONT want anyone I know to hear my story but saying it anonymously will help in Reddit.
I did everything for my parents, being their younger son but they never understoodwhat it meant to be a parent. I never disclosed anything in my life to them since the past 20+ years. I always tried to be a good son in their eyes and never smoked, never drank, always topped college and even started earning way more than an average Nepali. I was the perfect son who knew how to cook, cleaned up after himself and I even paid them since birth by adding interest as my mother demanded so. I left the only person i loved 3 years ago. I was with her for 7 years ani because of my mom’s hate for Newars i had to leave her because i couldnt let the love of my life get destroyed just as I was by my mother. (Long story short, I made her hate me by telling her that I cheated on her with our mutual friend and told the mutual friend that this was for her best). She got depressed because of me, I attempted to kill myself due to loneliness during covid as I refrained from talking with her, my family never helped and never noticed me lighting up cigarettes and drinking daily.I only messaged her for 7 years, noone else, she was all that I had when it came to talking or being with someone. I had lost all friends and my family was too busy grieving over the elder son who went abroad to notice my situation. I fixed my love’s life by helping her father’s business anonymously. Her family status got better after that. I helped her secure a monthly 50k job in Nepal by bribing my friend with some liquor. I did it all for her, and was always the bad guy in her eyes. I started to get too lonely so I got into riding and earned my way up to a superbike started modifying it and taking care of it. It helped me forget her during the day instead of grieving all the time. I wanted to talk to her and tell her the truth everyday, how everything I did was so that i could buy my own piece of land and construct a home and mainly get away from my mother who never understood how to be a friend instead of someone who only complains about giving birth to me, because everything i do is never enough. My parents earn crores yearly and i earn lakhs ONLY using my own money. So i will never be good enough for them. They never awknowledge me. My dad tries to at times but ends up listening to my mother who cries and nags over everything.
It has been 3 years since i left the person i loved, yet i dream of her every single day. I found out she was going to a foreign country, I attempted to talk to her but was blocked everywhere. I made a new sim card and gathered up my guts after saying to myself, “No, she hates me” 10000 times. Then i called her, she didnt pick up, i called her again and no answer again. I then gathered the guts and messaged everything in Whatsapp. Seen, no reply. I realized that i should have just left my sirname and my family and always been with her because i cannot even touch a girl because of me stilll being in love with her. After a few days, her reply came, She said she hates me, she has someone and for me to get a “fucking life bro”. I know she would never say any of these but her current boyfriend probably was the one who messaged this. I have everything in the world that i desired for except for love. And im stuck here deciding whether or not to go abroad to the country she went to recently and be the creepy stalker or be with my mother who has always made me feel down and never appreciated me in my life.
Thank you for reading.
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I’m sorry to say this but YOU chose to lie about cheating on your partner tetibela, so just let her go now. Don’t string her along man.
And if you really want to go abroad, then do so but not in the hopes of reconnecting with her. Do it for yourself.
That was me. Doing all the shit to just make her hate me. And, when she did. I can’t have my sanity for god sake.
Accept it, moving on is hard. Or, just chase her to ruin yourself all over.
Shits so complicated it should be on starplus
haha k k lekhya ho yeso ali paraphrase gara hai
“Long story short, I made her hate me by telling her that I cheated on her with our mutual friend and told the mutual friend that this was for her best”
should have talked about your family situation instead of saying that man. well she is gone now and you can’t do anything about it. Besides you are from a wealthy family and you yourself earn good enough. Try finding someone else whom you can wife up and heal you at the same time. (there are plenty tbh)
As the girls current boyfriend i confirm this story.
well ….. i can relate what you went through ……
3 years bro …. yaad aauxa ik ….. but now you should just let her go….you will feel light …
she is probably your 1st i guess … that bf shit is xd exactly same …. but
warning …the love of ur life is still stuck in heart…and u know can’t be with her so u try to find love in other girl
but feeling of the one ur dating isn’t ur 1st Love….. making u feel nothing for them….
N then u stop dating and again look for another and another and another which won’t end until………….
you let her go out of your mind ….. this is life it hurts you learn …. and you move on
“Everyone says be kind, be polite, be a nice man. No. You should be a Monster and then learn how to seathe it.” -Jordan Peterson
Thug that shit out bro. Fuck everyone. Be an absolute beast. You were too nice and for what? You got potential to be a leader based on things you said on this post. Why let some people ruin it? Be the leader you were meant to be. Chase your dream. Don’t let shit like this bother you. You’re better than this. See you at the top bro. 👊
Seems a movie story to me.
go see her eye to eye bro why so much regret
Revenge is stupidity. But redemption is swee cryt brother. Still got time. You can confront your family. You can start over again. Khutta bhaya jutta jati ni paucha, don’t say maan pareko jutta po jutta natra Khali khutta thik Cha but, fati sakyo bhaney maan pareko purano jutta no good. Naya jutta even more comfortable huna ni milcha ni.
You sound like you’ll make anyone luck to have you. Know your value.
More than a break-up, MOVING ON is the hardest phase of all. You shouldn’t be in her life anymore. She has finally found someone,don’t take it away from her. Don’t mess up her peace which she has finally got it.
Now you need to focus on yourself. It’s a very difficult journey but don’t listen to anyone. Give time to yourself. Time will heal your wounds but scars won’t. Take that scar as your life lesson. Next time LEARN TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND FIGHT FOR IT.
All the best to us. Let’s do our best. 🌻✌️😊
I smell bullshit
Don’t let Ekta kapoor get a hold of this script please.
Well that’s deep bro, but time to move on. Even she moved on so there’s no point on following her or creeping her out by stalking that’s weird and dark af. Your story is kinda cinema storyline would become a classic cult movie if written and directed correctly, again I went out of topic, pardon so yeah just get a life, life is a roller coaster ride there are several twists and turns every day every time, captivated in a void of unexpected possibilities…. If you reckon then go abroad follow her stalk her it’s all your choice, but yeah that’s dark as f**k. It’ll be such a drag, It’ll be like the Netflix show ‘YOU’, creepy af.
Plus Ani mero parents ley crore kamaune bhaye mah kt ko chakkar mai laagdainathiye masta brothel jaanthiye
You said you told her you cheated on her to create a fake scenario. So her trust towards you is already gone so I think you need to move on. You also said that you earn money so maybe you should move out from your house if you are able to financially sustain yourself. Go to therapy. Seek help because I think you really need it.
Top notch copypasta
Why did you decide what’s best for her? She’s an adult too, you could have figured things out together. You prevented your mom from destroying her and then destroyed her yourself. She must have gone through hell bro, 7 years and you say you cheated on her with a mutual friend … DUDE.
What you did was wrong. Accept, apologize and move on.
Baaf re yesto maya garne kta haru ni hunxan ra vanya ajkal
You did things you shouldn’t do. You should accept it’s over and things can’t get fixed up. Be good bro, you’ll find your love life again, don’t let her go. Life’s all about going through, things move pretty fast. Don’t get hold into things that won’t get turned.