**So, SEE paxi almost all my friends went to KTM for further studies. I, a fucking idiot, chose to stay in Biratnagar.** My friends really tried to convince me to come to KTM tara maile kan ma tel lagayera base. Now, they have joined well-reputed colleges, tei ni full scholarships ma Example-St.Xavier, Xavier International, ambition, KMC, e.t.c **and here I have joined a fucking community school** (Pokhariya) which I guess really isn’t something to compare to colleges my friends are in right now.
Perhaps I wouldn’t be feeling down or regretting if my friends had chosen a college similar to mine. I honestly feel like an oddball. Obviously, Biratnagar padne dherai xainan and that makes me feel like an odd one, especially when I am the only one in my class who is an outsider. Maybe I wouldn’t have regretted either if I had chosen a well-reputed private college or would have opted for management, If only I had listened to my mom’s advice to join a private college for science. I was so keen to try to save money and be financially literate that I forgot that **my goal was to leave this country after +2 for which you need good grades, and at that private colleges, especially the ones in KTM are good at pumping out.** **”Padne le ja ni padxa”** Well ma padne student haina, **I need someone to put a gun to my head and tell me to study, which community colleges really don’t do.**
Problem: I am lazy and don’t study, I feel like an oddball, worried I won’t be able to meet my goal to go to Australia after +2 because I don’t study and I am lazy, my college isn’t as cool and as good as my friend’s ( Which is true ), jealous of my friends and for a good enough reason
Possible solution: Just study and work hard (I procrastinate a lot)
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Private college le ne kei ne hune haina khassai, maile ne thulai college ma padhya ho, bekar paisa kharcha matrai. Hamro ta college nai thulo thiyo, bunk hanna ne sajilo… padhne le ja ne padhla ya napadhla tara napahne le chai kai ne padhdaina. Teacher is ramrai pako ho obviously tara dhyana kaha hunxa ra class ma. Aile ne regret garxu napadheko ma. Aile jata padhe ne ramrari prep garyo vane sajilai hunxa bahira ne, parents le ne support garna parxa tara. Dherai requirements hunxa, money transactions barey ma (maile ne khassai majale ta bujhya xaina). So eso research gara, ramro GPA lyau, contact ma basa ACI jasto organizations sanga, ani garna parne sabb kamm garinai rakha. Best of the lucks.
It does not matter much where you study at least upto +2. The only thing to remember is your goal whatever it be. Personally, it does not make any difference at the high school level where you study. Just see that you do not get demotivated by comparing with friends. Try to keep up with the skills and academics that you need after +2. Just look forward and see what you can achieve with your self-effort.
I have seen plenty of my friends who did not study in Kathmandu, but excelled later on. Just understand +2 is a high school level. Besides, you have a very big advantage. You do not have to look after household chores, and just focus on what you think is the best. Your family is besides you. All these things saves time and helps us a lot in life.
You have chances in IOE or IOM because pokhariya is government school/college you also have chances at loksewa
“I need someone to put a gun to my head and tell me to study, which community colleges really don’t do.” This is very very bad mindset to have. Maybe this will work till you are in school level, but after that you will really struggle if you need others to tell you what to do. Nobody is going to spoonfeed you in life and you’re parents are not going to be with you forever.
So look at the positive aspects of this, like freedom to study as you want and as you wish and figure it out for yourself.
Where you go to school does not matter in the slightest, in terms of academics.
Carefully choose your friend circle and utilize online resources then you will be all right
Bro, School collage doesn’t effect Academics.
You need to make habits for studying.
Habits can be made, think studying as a way to escape out of trouble from world for a while.
2 hour padhera sakeko Thai paudenaa..
Everything you just said is complete bullshit and pointless
bro ma goverment clz padiyena vanera regret garira chhu. aaile full scholarship pauthe goverment padheko vaye. tara timro case ma chai private nai thik ho bides nai jane vaye ta . nepal ma bachelor garne vaye chai tenson naleu jhan ramro huncha .11 class ma vaye chai transfer handeu
I am a major procrastinator and need a nuke aimed at me to finish any required task within the deadline. US ma ni padhena vane scholarship janxa vanera matra assignment gariraxu. Graduation paxi dherai future dekhdaina because I always only do the bare minimum and call it a day. Try to change that and you’ll be fine. I’m also working on it. More power to us. Ultimate goal nai Aus jane ho vaney testo stress linu pardaina.
st xaviers ma scholarship pauxa vanne myth ho, halla ma biswas nagaram hola
chhodera au na ta. its okay to leave you dont have to stay. mero sathi le 2 ta college join garera paisa khera falera bidesh gayo. tara hes happy cause he can earn the money back and he finally got what he wanted to do. paisa dherai waste ta bhayo yes tara 4 barsa thulo ki paisa haina ra? depends on your financial condition, aama baba lai manauna sakchhau or not.
I am currently studying in Shikshadeep and despite being so called best reputed its jackass shit and i am regreting my choice of not joining colleges in ktm when i had the chance. 😢
up until +2, wherever you go to study, doesn’t matter because the norm is you don’t go looking for a job immediately after your +2 is over. Most join Bachelor’s or go abroad. Now the real question is where do you study Bachelor’s ? If you’re thinking of choosing anywhere that is outside valley, I’d ask you to think again and very hard.
I did my +2 from Orchid College in Biratnagar 8 years ago.
all +2 colleges run the same neb +2 course and all the differences are made by quality of faculty and infrastructure and then cheating
st xavier which arguably has one of best science faculty in nepal handpicks the best students so they nice but is u can get into st xavier u can do good in board with other institution
curriculum is always like outdated by 20yrs when it gets out so no top class infrastructure required 10yo hardware in comp lab can run everything u need to run for school computer practical shit
after board result comes out the thing that matters more is your grade and what u learnt so dont put too much pressure in yo brain
Bheda bheda ko pachi lagxa re
11 12. Pardai garne Ani loksewa ko tayari garne simple
Bhai ma pani merryland ma padheko and same regret hunxa. Timi le at least merryland join garnu parxa it’s better for management. Further aba batchelor ma if brt ma basne ho vane I would advise Bic other ktm or foreign.
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Bro maile Pokhariya school padheko and maile +2 suru garda varkhar pokhariya ma aako thyo science so arniko padhe still regretting that decision from an educational , career and financial pov ( had good time with friends in arniko ngl).
Aba I need someone to put a gun to my head and tell me to study wala mindset le chai chaldaina even in private colleges .
+2 samma ta kei hunna hau
Every reputed college or public colleges teach you to become a slave of some wealthy businessmen.
So take my advice and start learning your own something different, that will teach you some life skill, some skill that you require to survive and live your life.
Degrees and certificates are just a waste of half of your life.
Did my +2 from a somewhat reputed college in Lalitpur and I saw so many folks moving from different places to study there. There were a handful of smart kids but many had problems studying and fitting in.
But +2 is not that difficult to get marks if you study on your own.
What I will say is colleges will affect your scores based on your habits. If you are a lazy one someplace strict would have been better.