Asking for advice here. I am 26M and have a senior girl coworker (2 year older). She is great to hangout and all and we have a great vibe together but she is moody af as of my understanding working together for a year now. Once while i was talking with other colleagues she got triggered all of a sudden . She letter apologized to me saying she was irritated since the morning that day. I mean who ruins others’ day because their day is not going well. Later things were normal after not talking for a month. And once i did tell her that i had a crush on her but she declined that completely and said not to do so. And things were going as usual.
Now after couple of months, I am starting to notice something is off. She did have a short temper but not all the time, but one cannot predict what’s her mood is and what’s she going to say next. She is kind and talkative one day and becomes fucking cold and rude the other day. Recently, for the second time, she told me not to text her cause it pissed her off. In actual, I was just trying to have a laugh. She might be having a bad day but how can one know one is having good or bad day if one does not communicate,right.
Since we both work in same office, although i am trying to avoid her due to her bad behaviors, I cannot completely cut her off.
So, this shit is ruining my mental health and i think her’s too. I don’t want to hurt people but her dual behaviors, make me hate her even more. It is hurting my self respect and annoyed at the same time.
Is she suffering from some sort of mental illness or depression.
How can I make this work out or deal with such person?
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” And once i did tell her that i had a crush on her ” – umm how are you guys so confident that your job won’t be at risk after pulling this off????????
1. Since you are both adults how about you talk maturely about that stuff when you guys are talking freely and when she is in good mood??
2. Find another job and let her be i guess lol.
Perhaps she’s feeling weird cuz she knows you like her and it’s conflicting her mind that changes her idea of you. Or she might be bipolar.
I don’t think there is a way to fix a sour relationship especially with the opposite gender especially when in a working environment especially when you have confessed your crush on her especially when the other person acts irrationally.
I’d better find another job. Because things are never going to be the same.
All I can say is do not dip your pen into the company’s ink. Time to leave.
Its not because you confessed. Some people are moody and rude to other and don’t care about their actions. They think everyone around owe to them.
She might be going through something. Ask on a serious note if something is going with her in other aspect of her life. If it’s just her mood then you can do nothing other than staying professional or switching job.
Take her on a date
PMS bro PMS
Hahaha merai office ho ki kya ho
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