I am a student who’s currently studying in class 11 (Science stream). As Dashain is nearing, I told my parents to get me a ticket to go back to home. My college has given 1 month holiday from Dashain all the way to Tihar and Chatha. But, today sth happened that got me concerned.
I have had a small argument with my mom regarding the holiday. She insisted that I should spend the entire holiday (for whole month) at home. But I insisted that I would return within 12 of the Kartik.
The thing is that, my college has implemented “blended” learning during the holiday from October 30th for upto 11 days. This class is somehow like online classes but we won’t be seeing any teachers (even in video calls or whatsoever). They will be giving us Assignments and we would have to study about them and submit the assignments. (This much for blended, I won’t go on full detail). And also I had planned to do a handful of self-study whilst the holiday. Not only that, I have decided to kind of like dive into programming a lot more (as being from the account background in class 9 and 10). And also I have tons of notes to complete.
Now, I know that none of these things aren’t impossible to do at my own home. But I kind of like don’t want to study at Mt home. I have had more than 5 years of detailed history of not being able to do any academical works at home ( I mean, who even studies when you are at your house where you have spent memories and return to that home after a pretty long time).
Now, the problem is, my mom is insisting me to spend my time there but, I straight up said that I wouldn’t. It continued for about 20 minutes (we arguing where should I be at holiday). But, at last though, she said like “okay do whatever”. I immediately felt kind of sad and very guilt.
Also it is to be noted that after the vacation, our second exam will start within two weeks.
I tried to explain my mom that” I will return within 12 as I have lots of work and exam is also nearing. Besides that, there is also a whole 16 days vacation (winter vacation) shortly after the second exam. I will come home and stay there for the whole vacation.” But, she kind of disagreed.
Please guys, this is not a joke, I really don’t want to see my mom get sad thinking that “her only one son doesn’t want to spend time with her..” It just breaks my heart thinking what she would perceive about me. But, on the other hand, I don’t want to give up on my plans as I think it would be pretty good time to up my academics and skills too. Please suggest your ideas.
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Ayy chill out bro don’t worry too much about missing out on studies you have your whole life ahead of you to study. Just go back home spend time with your friends and family.
Brooo chill out. You have your whole life ahead of you to study. Just go home and spend some time with your family. Ghar ma padhnei nasakiney ni hunna padhnei maan cha vaney.
I’m gonna speak from experience. Go home. Later you’ll really regret not spending time with your parents when u have the chance. Padhai garnu ta garnu tara yesto saro marimeti chahi nagarnu.
Whats with these kids not wanting to spend time at their home. पछि विदेश गएसी यै मोमेन्ट सम्जिदै बस्नु। JESUS!!!
Xupa lagera ghar jau. Where there is will, thre is a way. Ekdam padai ko chinta xa vane ni it won’t be totally impossible to study at home. Aafu le try garnu paryo paila, naya routine banaunu paryo.
Vakhar ta 11 ma xau, 5 barsa dekhi ko detailed history re. Tyo 5 barsa ma ta 6 7 8 ma padne bachhai thyeu, aaile thulo vaisakyo aafno time manage garna sakxau/ sikna parxa. Yettikai dashain tihar ko bela aafno aama buwa ko chitta nadukhau.
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>there is also a whole 16 days vacation (winter vacation) shortly after the second exam. I will come home and stay there for the whole vacation.
Aaile dashain tihar ko mahol ho vai. Mood nai arko hunxa. Sab pariwar sangai hune vanekai yei bela ho manauna. Tmi sanga time spend matra haina, xoro sanga chadparwa manaune ni ichhya ho. Paxi taal na betaal ko bela gayera k kaam. Teti khera gayera xai k ”mummy aaunu tihar manam” vanne?
Chup lagera ghar jau. That’s it
**Tl;dr**
OP, a grade 11 student, has full xutti until chatt but wants to stay home only until Dashain to increase his academic skills and prepare for exams which will take place after chatt. And he had argument with his mom as she wants him to stay at home for his full vacation. So suggest him what to do.
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hami pani 11 12 padhekai ho bro. no matter how much you study, it’s your luck to get good grades in Class 12. I’ve seen toppers get B+.
just go home myan
Go home buddy. Enjoy time with your family. You’re too young to be worried about the rat race. You’ll get plenty of time in the future. There’ll come a time when you won’t get to enjoy things like that even when you want to.
We do not know how long we have with our parents we do not know when will be the last time we will see them as we grow we gain responsibilities that will only get more and more soon you will have your own family you won’t get to spend much time with your own parents so cherish all the time and freedom you currently have with your parents cause you never know when it will be your last goodbye and you will wish that you spent more time with them
ghar jau vai chupa lagera tmlai 11 ko exam ko tension xa? jindagi ma tyo vanda thulo kura dherai aauxan tara k kura chai yaad rakha vanda family sanga ko time kailai farkinna paxi kaam garxau bidesh tira hunxau ani 4 5 barsa ma ek choti aauxau. spend time with your family kid. jabo euta terminal exam ko lagi family time naxoda. padhni mann huni le ja pani padhna sakxa. aafno aama ko mann ni rakha