i thought my suicidal late teens were the hardest years of my life but nothing could’ve prepared me for my 20s waking up everyday with no purpose, feeling so lost, unable to keep up with friendships, watching everyone move on with relationships and careers and being unable to catch up. and I’m such a “life is not a race” type of person but damn I’m losing so hard rn
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$ is the soution and $ is the problem
It’s just 20s lol, chill, nepali hau, ajhai kehi barsa family le support garxan, figure out what you wanna do, complete your studies, get a job, find a partner, make yourself busy.
If nothing makes you happy change your lifestyle, visit a therapist, get new friends.
Here’s a tip:
It only gets more difficult with age. So better pull yourself up.
Every time I feel like that I go to this club,And the first and foremost rule of this club is you don’t speak about this club,this is what it says
“Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don’t need. We’re the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War’s a spiritual war… our Great Depression is our lives. We’ve all been raised on television to believe that one day we’d all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won’t. And we’re slowly learning that fact. And we’re very, very pissed off.” It’s therapeutic
Its your 20s, you are just figuring your life out. Don’t stress too much, things will get better. Real panic starts in 30s, so i suggest you enjoy your 20s, make stupid decisions, fall in love, get drunk, smoke some weed, drink some wine.
Basically listen to “ young forever” jayz feat mr hudson.
That’s an existential Crisis
Everyone passed through that stage. Vai haru chan timi jastai mero pani. If you want to share your thoughts and take some advice. You can always pm me. Dnt lose hope. You have lots to experience yet. Life is really beautiful. Trust me.
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Us bro us
Losing to whom? But yourself.
HEY we can be friends its getting more for me as well cant keep up with friends everyday i woke up and feel super super backward then others
Doing nothing regretting on doing nothing, again doing nothing?
damn lately realizing that most of the people in our generation is feeling lost including me thats kind of sad and don’t know what to do to. do you feel me??
10 days vipassana meditation course may help you
I am about to turn 20 and i have no idea what i am doing and what i will do..
Bro keeps pushing learn to enjoy the grind, and eat that frog. Don’t think just do. Dherai sochyo vane garo huncha malai Pani, but when you are the go and keep yourself occupied with work and figuring out things, it’s better. Dherai garo vayo vane roideu baru but keep moving forward. And try to do something each day to be proud of yourself. Life is not easy xaina but you can’t let it waste.
bro are you me?
My man needs David Goggins
>i thought my suicidal late teens were the hardest years of my life but
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got it,
I should just end it now
I feel you bro
Yeh toh us moment hogaya..
don’t feel left behind especially at your early 20s, no one has figured everything out that’s just the truth, make long term goals and make progress and trust me if you pull through then that’s the most happy you’ll ever feel
You won’t know what’s you’re cup of tea unless you sip every cup , I mean start anything you like or love doing fam, I started from art and drawings to playing football to quiting it and started joining startups to know it was not meant for me and finally realized music was my thing now I’ve learned a lot may take some time but albums on the way , if you got anything to share I’m all ears brother! Keep that chin up !
Went through that during my early 20s, especially after my visa got rejected and was applying for another. 3 years through that feeling.
Aba mero life chai khasai better chai bhayena but a lot of people i know did really well. Good luck, this too shall pass.
same bestie same
I have also been there bro..i used to feel like i had to no purpose but if you can just focus on taking action and just do anything for your career..like join a course or get a job and give it everything you got..i think it helps..just focus on being your better self and improving everyday..i started with the gym..
Quit my lost job because it was explotative af been cold applying for 2 months now kei xaina. Dashain tihar jhan stress baudauna matra ayo jasto lagxa. Life ma aru kura thik xa money issues chaii last. Last ma paisa vae sab xa na vae nothing.
feeling stuck in my 30s. know a guys who’s still feeling stuck in his 40s. just live bro. see where life takes you. if it’s nowhere, that’s okay too
We are gen z . Don’t worry cause every little things gonna be alright