So my community started teaching young generation newari instrument last year. Ani last year dekhi I wanna go but my dad said no he said padhai ma effect garxa ani also he doesn’t like anyone society ko. I just got a message from tya KO dai saying new comers are invited feri new course suru hunna lako and stuff I really wanna go I just asked my dad. He got mad at me and said no. I really wanna go. All of my cousins are there and I remember last time when I saw them playing those instruments I cried so hard. I really wanted to join them it’s my chance but my dad doesn’t understand. It’s not like I am failing classes or anything I have been on top of my class last sem ma ni aaile KO first term ma ni.
Can anyone suggest how to convince him?
Ps all ik is how to study. I don’t have any skills. Ik how to crochet and that was only possible because I learned from YouTube. I feel really bad when SB ask me what skills do you have and all I could say is oh I study. I am not even good at it anymore.
EDIT: He’s not against me playing instruments he’s against me going community ko place to learn because he doesn’t like those people. I told him to pay for me and I’ll learn somewhere else he said okay(he said okay last time but never did) also we don’t have good financial situation for me to go somewhere and learn.
EDIT 2: He pulled the old dad blackmail move. So I guess I am not going anymore. I am sorry and thank you guys.
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Seems like 3 idiots ko farhan’s situation.
Pitdeu bau lai
Semester? That means ur in Bachelor’s. Prolly now’s the time for u to ask for ur own freedom. Yk like if u can afford paying for it, then go by urself without telling him.
Otherwise, talk to ur dad abt how it will not affect ur studies and make some compromise like “yo pali result bigryo vane, tyo program bata nikaldinu” type.
Your dad sounds conservative. Learning our culture and its practices should always be promoted.
May be he has some specific reason. You can talk to him about it. I don’t think any dad would be that harsh to his daughter.
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How much does it cost?
well time to rebel.
Better to argue a little bit than to regret it later in life.
well family related situation ma ho vane ta hamile deko tips le kei garne wala xaina since we don’t know ki timro parenets haru kati ko jiddi xan vanera
aba tei community ma gara sikna man xa vane cahi tirmo dad lai convenience garna bahek aru kei upaya dekhdina cuz timrai ghar paxadi raixa soo lukera gayeu vane ni dekhi halne raixan, convience chai kasari garxau timilai nai idea hola
Sounds like a him problem rather than a you problem. Are the people in your community or society that bad? He doesn’t have to attend the classes. He doesn’t have to meet them he doesn’t have to interact with them. What’s the problem?
Somewhere I read, “It’s easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.” I think he will eventually not mind you going to that community.
On the other note, I finally came across someone who crochets in this subreddit. I mean, I don’t crochet…..yet, but I would love to teach myself though. I don’t know any shop where I can get all the necessary crochet supplies. If you are from Kathmandu or Lalitpur, please recommend where you get your supplies from. Thank you!!
Keep community, get new father.
Sika. Bachelors ma pugera ni aafno freedom decide garna napaaune vanne hunxa ra. J skill sikna mann xa sikihaala bachelors mai.. bachelors sakkera sikxu vanne ho vane ta kura matrai hunxa. Jobs/work le garda kei pani garna vyaaudaina paxi. sikne umer aile nai ho.