Mero pura balyakaal alcoholic father (जडिया बुवा) lai samhalerai bityo. Ma sano huda praya jaso rakshi khayera aayera mummy lai ra hami lai kutne garthe. Rakshi khayera pant ma nai susu gardine, Jo sanga ni gayera mukh xaddai jhagada garne, Kaile bich road ma nai sutdine garthey. Society ma hamro kunai izzat thiyena. sabai aafanta le hepthey. Esto huda hudai pani Mummy le jaso taso dukha garera ma ra mero dai lai 10 class samma padhaunu bhayo. SLC pass garne bittikai maile job khoje ani part time job gardai +2 pani pass gare. tei time ma mummy le sutukka rakshi xuttaune ausadhi magayera daddy lai khandinu bhayo ra ausadhi le kaam pani garyo. Daddy le Rakshi xode.
Bistarai maile aafno job field ma experience haru collect gardai gaye ra aafno padhai lai pani continuity didai gaye. Aaja ko din samma aaipugda ma ramro naam chaleko organization ma kaam garirakheko xu. Hami purano society bata shift bhayera naya thau ma aayera baseko xau. Society ma aile hamro xuttai respect xa. Aile relatives haru pani aau jaau garxan. Dai ra ma milera jagga pani kinem. Ghar ma sabai kura ramrai chalirako thiyo tara…..
5-6 month jati bhayo daddy le feri rakshi khana suru gareko. Rakshi khayera bato bata nai halla gardai aauxan. Ora para ko sabai ximeki le thaha paisake. Katti samjhaye khana man lagyo bhane baru ghar mai lyayera halla nagarikana khanu bhanera but manne nai haina. Feri ausadhi lyayera khandeko aile ta ausadhi le ni kaam nai garena. Asti ta jhan fittu hune gari rakshi khayera aayera ximeki lai mukh xaddai raixan. Rish le aakha nadekhera maile aafnai daddy mathi haat uthauna ni badhya bhaye. aaja pani khuttai tekna nasakne gari rakshi khayera ghar aako xan. ghar ma sabai jana depression ma jana lagi sake. balla balla etro aafai dukha garera hyaa samma aaipuge. feri pahila kai situation ma pugxu ki bhanera sochda sochda depression ma jana lagi sake, Rati nindra ni lagdaina aaja bholi. dukha pokhne thau katai nabhettayera hyaa aayera lekheko. :'(
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We on same boat, my dad is more tamed, but we on same boat. Even i don’t know it gets better or not, but certainly got “daddy issues” and it gave me colorful personality.
Send him to rehab bro. Ive sent my dad once already, will do it again. No mercy. And anyone that tries to ruin my mom’s happiness will get fucked. She was the one that sacrificed the most. And fuck alcohol.
I get you. I am suffering from the same problem still and I am in my late 20s. I don’t have any good memories of my childhood. All I remember is screams and fights. I hate alcohol so much that I have vowed to never drink alcohol. I have a negative outset of life. I have vowed to never get married because I don’t want to continue my dad’s lineage. I don’t want to ruin someone else’s life like my dad did. I have seen my mother suffer. I have seen my relatives suffer. I have felt embarrassed about my father because he makes a fool out of himself. I hate him. And he doesn’t even care. I hate that even more.
lagvag dherai kura milne raixa tmro mero almost every
Raksi yetikai chhodna gaaro huncha. Doctorkoma lagera suggestion line. Uni haru le withdrawal symptom ko lagi ausadi dincha.
Ani have your dad be busy with something. Yetikai eklai ho bhane k garne ra… so finally tehi raksimai bhulna jaanchan.
If possible kehi kaam, volunteering huncha ki or katai pasal tira huncha kk j hos dinbhar busy hune kaam chahincha.
I still remembered the day I had to throw a punch at him for controlling him. He has recovered so far, and I wish the best for you.
Depressing kura, tara himmat rakha, rehab ma halna milcha bhane hera, feri raksi khana chodlan ki.
Please take care 🙏
All kids deserve parent
But
All parents don’t deserve kids
Koi relative doctor xan vane milayera blood, urine test dekhayera kei disease lageko xa vana. Alcohol ho main cause vanna lagau. Testai kei plan banauda better. But also depends on how well your father can read medical reports.
Sudhar kendra halidiye hunxa 3mahina ko lagi
Mero pani yestei awastha thiyo tara mero dai le garda. I thought I would even have to uit my job because I was really disturbed because of this. Yesto dukha hunchha ni, I hope you don’t lose and take care of your family.
Maile mero dai lai rehab lagethe ghar ma fakayera, 6 months rakheko, purei sober ahile. Hope it works for your father too. Let me know if you need the details of that rehab hai.
Take care!
Kick his ass out.
Khadi Muluk pathai deu afai chutxa raxi I think this is the best option for your family
It reminded me of one of my relatives. What is the name of the medicine. I will recommend to them . Hope it will work for them. Good luck bro and mainly don’t give up.
Don’t give him a single dime
Alcoholic Anonymous ma lagi herana ekchoti bau lai. Aanepal dot org ho kyare website. It might help. Doesn’t cost you anything except time.
Bro
Is me
Jabarjasti rehab ma rakhdinu bro few months
Considered admitting him to a rehab?
Literally on the same boat man….dm if you wanna talk.
This is so relatable. I went through hell. Thank god i ran awayfrom home
He is deviated from his God self and certain things are karmic. This experience will only take you to your highest self if you learn to be still and not let this bother you. Your dad is lost and you don’t need to be lost with him. As far the society goes, sabaiko bhirta k k huncha, bahira ramro matrai dekahyera judge garne bani. Timro dad le j sukai garun, be proud and loving towards yourself, the world will never say a thing. Aru le ke sochan bhanna thalyo bhane kasaiko kehi pragati hudainaa. Also, sorry, you are going through this- it must be very tough but this shall too pass.