well we are social animals and we learn form interacting with our environment. A human learns how to behave, how others think and what the important things are from the environment.
I didn’t have close friends who i played with or went to places with during my school days.i was alone most of the time.i would talk to one or two persons and we would stop talking after some time.
Recently, i found out i was friends with people like me(we both had backs,and no signs or clue of passing them,it was impossible to pass,i felt like we would need to quit engineering when i talked to him).I didn’t talk to any other clasmates just causal hi and hello.But one day i asked a guy on how to pass and he gave me a solution, on the way to study, how to revise,how to manage time and so on.he made me think passing is doable.
Then the thought occurred to me,i should have reached out for help before that time.Also,me not having friends to talk about studies and stuff,lead me feel like i didn’t belong there and i started not having interests in study,resulting in failure.
so u need to talk to people around u,even when it’s hard.
Might depend. How do you spend your free time usually? Do you have hobbies and consider yourself an interesting person? Some ppl who didn’t spend a lot of time with others while growing up may end up using almost all of their free time on their phone and one day might regret they do not possess an interesting personality. Do you feel the same?
Depends upon the social group. If the group is lafanga wala you might have missed a bit of fun but nothing more than that.
If the group was very intellectually good and future conscious then you might have missed some big opportunities.
Btw could you share the tips shared by your friend on how to study, revise, managing time and the most important how to pass 😅. Got exams tomorrow so 😅